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30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

September 29, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

It is important to note at the outset of this particular reading just who it is that Jesus is speaking to. Luke says: “Jesus told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and treated others with contempt.”

But, then there’s this. Elsewhere in Scripture, Proverbs tells us: “To do righteousness is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice” and “Blessings are on the head of the righteous.” Turning to Isaiah we read: “The work of righteousness will be peace, and the effect of righteousness, quietness and assurance forever.”

So, why does Jesus seem to be criticizing the righteous one? One little word makes the difference. Jesus is talking to the self-righteous; those who trusted in themselves. They’re a little too sure they are right and anyone who thinks differently must be wrong. They (or is it we?) are so full of self that there’s little room for God’s grace to filter in.

It’s interesting when you think about it that everything the Pharisee says is true. He has set himself apart from others by his faithful adherence to the law. He is, by the standards of his day, a righteous man. It isn’t that the Pharisee is speaking falsely, but rather that the Pharisee misses the true nature of his blessing. As Luke says, he has trust in himself. His prayer of gratitude may be addressed to God, but it is really about himself. He credits his righteousness entirely to his own actions.

The tax collector, on the other hand, does not even raise his eyes to heaven. He knows that he possesses no means by which to claim righteousness. He declares he has done nothing of merit. So, he stands back, hardly daring to approach the Temple, and throws himself on the mercy of the Lord. He seems not so much humble as desperate. He stakes his hope entirely on the mercy of God.

At the end of the day, the Pharisee will leave the Temple and return to his home the same virtuous, honorable man he was when he came to the temple. That hasn’t changed. The Pharisee’s mistake, as Scott Peck says, is that he thinks that whenever he wants, he can pull “God out of his hip pocket.” On the other hand, the tax collector will go back to his home exalted in God’s eyes because he humbled himself.

If you’re spiritually alive, and give credit where credit is due, you’re going to love this take on the parable. If you’re spiritually dead, you won’t even want to hear it. If you’re spiritually curious, there is still hope!

A churchgoer wrote a letter to the editor of his hometown newspaper and complained that it made no sense to him at all to go to church every Sunday. He wrote: “I’ve gone for 30 years now, and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons, but for the life of me, I can’t remember a single one of them. So, it’s been a waste of my time and on the part of homilists a waste of their time by giving sermons at all”.

This started a real controversy in the “Letters to the Editor” column. Much to the delight of the editor, it went on for weeks until someone wrote a real clincher: “I’ve been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals. But I do know this: they all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me those meals, I would be physically dead today.”

We might say: I’ve been in community x number of years. In that time, I’ve been nourished and supported by my Sisters thousands of times in hundreds of different ways. But sadly, I can only recall a few, if any, instances in full detail. This much I DO know: without their support my spirit would have withered long ago. Likewise, if I had not gone to Mass and been faithful to my time of private and communal prayer, I would be spiritually dead today!

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Yesterday was Oblate Sunday at the Monastery. We welcomed 15 Oblates for Mass, Dinner and an instructive gathering for an exchange of ideas based on assigned “Homework.”

A Benedictine oblate is a lay Christian who has made a spiritual commitment to live according to the Rule of Saint Benedict and be affiliated with a Benedictine monastery, though they do not take religious vows or live in the monastery. Oblates integrate Benedictine values of prayer, work, hospitality, and community into their daily lives in the world, forming an “extended family” to the monastery. For more information contact S. Mary David at mary.david.hydro@saintleo.edu or call 352-588-7176.

 

First Reading: Sirach 35:12-14, 16-18 Second Reading: 2 Timothy 4:6-8, 16-18
Gospel: Luke 18:9-14
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23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

September 8, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Wow!  Talk about conflicts!  Jesus keeps teaching us to love our neighbors as ourselves, love our enemies and do good to those who hate us.  Now he says, “Hate your mother and father, your brother and sister, your wife and children, even your own life.”   Obviously, you cannot have it both ways: Love everybody and hate your family.

Jesus is inviting us to think it over seriously.  Listen to Him: “To be my disciple is unusually difficult. You must make a TOTAL commitment.  Nobody, absolutely nothing, can come before me. I am your one Lord and God. In case of conflict, your nearest and dearest must take second place.”

I’ll share now what Richard Rohr has to say on taking that first step to discipleship: recognize, acknowledge and accept the truth that we are everywhere and at all times in the presence of God.

We cannot attain the presence of God because we’re already totally in the presence of God. What’s absent is awareness.  Each time you take another breath, realize that God is choosing you again and again—and yet again. We have nothing to work up to or even learn. We do, however, need to unlearn some things, and most especially we must let go of any thought that we have ever been separated from God. Religion is to help us let go of illusions and pretenses so we can be more and more present to what actually is. We have to learn to see what is already here.

Such a simple directive is hard for us to understand. We have a “merit badge” mentality. We worship success. We believe that we get what we deserve, what we work hard for, and what we are worthy of. It’s hard for Western people to think in any other way.

Experiencing radical grace is like living in a different world. It’s not a world in which I labor to get God to notice me and like me. It’s not a world in which I strive for spiritual success.  Unfortunately, many good people are afraid of gratuity.  But God cannot be seen through such a small and dirty lens.

I suggest that this week we check our spiritual spectacles, clean off any smudges and be open to receiving the radical graces God has ready waiting for us.   In the Gospel, the two brief parables (a person constructing a tower and a king marching into battle) make Jesus’ lesson obvious – don’t start what you cannot finish. Jesus is asking us for TOTAL commitment.  We can only commit if we are prepared to put God before everything else.

We pray with words of the Responsorial Psalm: “In every age, O Lord, you have been our refuge; teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain wisdom of heart.  Fill us at daybreak with your kindness that we may shout for joy and gladness all our days.”

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

Please remember in prayer our Sister Jerome Leavy whose funeral we will celebrate Tuesday morning, Sept 9th at 10am.  Wake service and visitation will be 7pm Monday in our monastic chapel.

May Sister Jerome rest in eternal peace!

 

 

First Reading:   Wisdom 9:13-18b         Second Reading:  Philemon 9-10, 12-17
Gospel:   Luke 14:25-33
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Don’t Stay In Your Comfort Zone

September 1, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

The advice in this Gospel is for us whether we are the guest or the hostess.  But it is not simply suggestions about etiquette. Something more is going on here. What Jesus advocates is not only for social occasions, but it’s meant to shape the entirety of our lives.

Jesus is advising us against staying in in our comfort zone. Rather than limiting our guest list to people who are clones of ourselves, people with whom we’re comfortable, who don’t threaten or even challenge us, Jesus encourages us to instead invite those who are different, people who make us uncomfortable, but whose difference from us may bring with it a blessing.

Repeatedly Jesus takes the low seat and invites unlikely types to be his guests.  Those who come to his banquet make it through the narrow door because they claim no merit of their own.  Jesus leaves the comfort zone of his place by his Father to come to earth as a tiny, helpless child. He leaves the comfort zone of earthly life, and allows himself to be placed in a narrow grave.

How can we move out of our comfort zone?

+   Develop a deeper spirituality,

+   Engage in service, – sit next to a stranger or a person you recognize but    want to know better.  It could even be a person you’ve lived with for years but who still feels like a stranger.

+   Help others on their spiritual journey – it’s amazing how you will change,
+   Keep saying “no” to the ways of the world and “yes” to the ways of God.

Jesus asks us that we do him the honor of keeping ourselves, our religion, our community from becoming trapped in some comfort zone.  For us in this Benedictine community, with the move to a new monastery in 2014 and all that involved choosing what to keep and what to divest ourselves of in gifts others was a daily reality.  We place great trust in God to guide us as we refuse to linger very long in any comfort zone, moving always past safety to encounter unexpected challenges to follow the crucified and risen One. This is what it means to live the life of faith – a life on the ladder of humility as described in the Rule of Benedict …  living in reverence and deference to others.

As Perpetual Adoration Benedictine Sister Mary Jane Romero puts it:  As a sister grows in humility, she is transformed interiorly, and it overflows into her exterior behavior.  She possesses a dignity that expresses her reverent attitude toward God, her sisters, and all of life.

Joan Chittister says it this way: Humility and contemplation are the invisible twins of the spiritual life.  (I like the symbol of twins … perhaps inspired by the image of Benedict and his twin sister.)  She continues: One without the other is impossible.  In the first place, there is no such thing as a contemplative life without the humility that takes us beyond the myth of our own grandeur to the cosmic grandeur of God.   Humility enables me to stand before the world in awe, to receive its gifts and to learn from its lessons.  But to be humble is not to be diminished.  Indeed, humility and humiliations are not the same thing.  Humility is the ability to recognize my right place in the universe, both dust and glory; God’s glory, indeed, but dust, nevertheless.  Being realistic about the self, the mind is free to become full of God.

Or consider this from Eugene Boylan in his book THIS TREMENDOUS LOVER: In the practice of humility, it is a very sound principle never to display a humility that is not sincere.  (Recall what Benedict directs: strive not to be called holy; rather, be holy.)  Frequent meditation on the Passion will bring us more quickly to humility than anything else, and while humility is dependent upon true self-knowledge, such knowledge is better obtained by studying what God is, than what we ourselves are.

A final thought …Humility is like underwear, essential, but indecent if it shows.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

 

First Reading:   Sirach 3:17-18,20,28-29         Second Reading:  Hebrews 12:18-19,22-24
Gospel:   Luke 14:1,7-14
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I Will Open the Door to You

August 25, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Sometime back we heard the story of the man who eventually gave in and answered the door because his neighbor was persistent in knocking and calling out for bread.  Today the story is different – once the master locks the door there is no turning back.  We hear: “I don’t know you – depart from me!”  This parable is a message to those who have read Scripture, donned their “church clothes” every Sunday, sung the hymns, dropped money in the collection baskets in church and listened for years to sermons about Jesus without developing a personal relationship with Him.  Somehow the routines seem to fill their need for reassurance.  Because they have been “faithful” in coming to church, they feel that they have secured a place in heaven. What a distortion of the message that Jesus delivered. He’s tried, in various ways to tell the His followers to be wary of having too much religion and too little relationship with Jesus.

The world today is just as confused as the Jews of Jesus’ time about how one gets to heaven. There is a growing tendency to believe if a person is generally good and does good things for others during their lifetime, they will earn a place in Heaven.

Jesus does not imply that there is a specific route by which one must enter heaven.  He does mention a gate that is narrow and difficult to enter.   Because the gate is narrow, we must pass through one at a time.  But we will not get into heaven on someone else’s coat tails.    Each one will answer to God for herself.  Jesus tells the us how to be saved:  enter through the narrow gate, be strong when you knock, make certain that the Lord knows you, have meals together (the Eucharist), make friends with the prophets, associate with people from every corner of the world and don’t be concerned with where you are in line or at the table.  Jesus expands the picture for us when He says that people will come from the east and the west, the north and the south.

And He bids us come and recline at the table.  That’s not a typical image of us in church, is it?   How could it be when our parents, or the good Sisters, poked us on the shoulder to remind us to kneel up straight, get your butt off the seat…  Jesus, says come, recline at my table.  One of our challenges is to reserve a “table” where we can go to dine and converse with our most intimate friend, our God.    In spirit we “recline” stretch out, (remember, you have to fit through that narrow gate), We can tilt back, sprawl, loll in the Divine Presence. We recline with surety that our Host will recognize our voice because we’ve made a daily practice of “communing” with Him.   We need not have any concern for rank or place because He has promised: I will know your voice, I know where you are from, and I will open the door for you.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

 

First Reading:   Isaiah 66:18-21         Second Reading:  Hebrews 12:57-, 11-13
Gospel:   Luke 13:22-30
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Wishful Waiting

August 18, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This Gospel offers us the reassurance that Jesus understands how difficult it is to wait.  Jesus is in a state of wishful waiting.  He waits for the Spirit. He’d waited for his cousin John who would baptize him.  He’d waited for the day the Father would give the go ahead to His working miracles.  He’d waited for the “three days” and His resurrection.

And we, our Sisters have lived through waiting too.   Tomorrow we will mark the 11th anniversary of the day we took up residence in our one-story home (here) on Wichers Road.  Our sisters have waited, responded, moved from Pennsylvania, to Dallas House to San Antonio Plaza to a hotel turned Convent.  Then came the move of that building to the shores of Lake Jovita where we resided until our home for deemed a fire risk.  The Academy girls and the Sisters had “sleep overs” in the parish school auditorium and the homes of local families.   We waited and waited for the Bishop’s okay to build a new home, Benedictine Hall.  Then came the call of the Spirit to down-size, build and relocate to the residence we now call home.  August 18, 2014, our friends from St. Mark’s parish gathered us and our “things” and we set foot in this our “new home.”

From the beginning of His coming on earth Jesus taught us lessons in waiting.  Mary and Elizabeth waited nine months for the birth of their babies.  The Holy Family waited three years in Egypt until it was safe to return to Nazareth. Jesus waited 30 years to begin his public ministry.  He waited three days to respond to Lazarus’ sisters’ news that his friend had died.  He waited 3 years for His Father to prompt him NOW is the right time for His last supper with friends, time for betrayal and crucifixion, time to rest in a borrowed tomb until he would be raised from the dead.  He waited for the right time to reveal himself to Mary Magdalene in the garden and later to appear to the disciples and his mother Mary huddled in the upper room drawing strength and comfort from each other. in the upper room.  He’d waited 40 days for the time to ascend and take His place at the right hand of his father.

And we? Oftentimes what do we do with our waiting time?  We look for the shortest check-out lane knowing full well that the shortest line can be the longest wait if the clerk calls for a price check.  We grit our teeth (we hope unseen) if the buffet line slows as someone goes back to read the menu; or we repeatedly hit we “print” command on the keyboard in hopes we can hurry it up.   What are the words in the hymn by St. louis Jesuits, TRUST IN THE LORD?  “Wait for the Lord, you shall not tire; wait for the Lord, you shall not weaken.  For the Lord’s own strength will uphold you, you shall renew your life and live.”

The message in the Gospel also reminds us that choosing to do good requires on-going decision-making. We all know full well that life isn’t conflict-free no matter how holy, easy-going or patient a person we may be.  We well know, living in a monastery isn’t surefire protection. We’re all still human, with human limitations.  But we are also followers of Jesus who said, “What makes you think I have come to establish peace?  I tell you I have come to sow division.”  He is alerting us to be prepared for difficult decisions.

Jesus is letting us know beforehand that He is right in the middle of the fray. Recall He said: “I have come to set the earth afire.”  He is telling us that when we make the decision to follow him, we may face opposition from some quarters, perhaps even from our peers, our family or friends.  He cheers us on when conflicts arise, and He can foresee the peace of reconciliation coming down the pike.

Consider your choices: add fuel to the fire or bite your tongue, cool your jets and exercise patience.   Figuratively, if we engage the faucet and turn on the nozzle, we can control the hose that can put out the fire between us.  The landscape may look charred. The ashes will remain.  But out of the ashes will come new life: green plants and colorful flowers – some never seen before.  And yes – peace will come!

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

 

First Reading:  Jeremiah 38:4-6,8-10         Second Reading:  Hebrews 12:1-4
Gospel:   Luke 12:49-53
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Stay Awake and Be Ready

August 11, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

 

The church offers the choice of dividing the Gospel passage into two sections.  It is the part that may be omitted that tells us: “Much will be required of persons entrusted with much.”  Luke couched that grim reminder with Jesus’ comforting words to his disciples: “Do not be afraid.”  We have been entrusted with so much, individually and collectively, that the words about the reciprocal demand could frighten us into inaction.  Our fears could make us feel that our feeble attempts to bring about peace and compassion and reconciliation are futile.  But we have the assurance of Jesus: Do not be afraid for your Father is PLEASED to give you the kingdom.  God is more than willing – God is PLEASED to give us the kingdom.   Thus, we must take delight in receiving all that the kingdom has to offer.  Do not be afraid but do be prepared.  “Stay awake!  Be prepared to see and greet the kingdom from afar.  Do not be afraid.”

I close with an excerpt of Nelson Mandela’s 1994 Inaugural Speech.  (Mandela’s words could be a homily in themselves)

 

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

 

It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant,

successful, talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.

 

Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.

There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking

so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

 

We were born to make manifest the glory that is within us,

It’s not just in some of us;

It’s in everyone.

 

As we let our own light shine,

We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,

Our presence automatically liberates others.

 

Nelson Mandela’s 1994 Inaugural Speech

 

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Have a good week. Schools are starting this week – watch out for school buses and children on the roads … safety for all.

 

 

First Reading:   Wisdom 18:6-9         Second Reading:  Hebrews 11:1-2, 8-19
Gospel:   Luke 12:32-48
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