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Easter

Friendship

May 17, 2023 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Throughout the Easter season abiding love has been the dominant and obvious theme in our Gospel readings.  We’ve been told: “I will not leave you orphans.”  Why?  “So that my joy might be in you and your joy may be complete.” The intimate, reassuring message is, “I call you friends.”  This is quite a concept to grapple with.  “Friends” describes a relationship between two equals.

On the night He was betrayed Jesus made a big deal about calling the disciples “friends.”  That’s perhaps something we don’t often think a great deal about: Jesus making friends.  We think of Jesus as kind, compassionate, and tender.  We think of Him holding and hugging children, touching the person with leprosy and blind eyes, teaching and preaching.  But do we consider that this truly human being also had friendships?  We might have a hard time visualizing Jesus walking, talking, and laughing, sharing a joke, recalling with his friends a funny incident they’d shared.  Can we see Jesus and His disciples sitting up late into the night around a dying fire, chatting quietly in the darkness counting the stars, then one-by-one falling asleep as the fire turns to embers?

What makes a friend a “friend”?  Think about your friends.  Friends have common interests and goals.  Friends work together, socialize together.  Friends share time, space and stories.  Friends listen, often share personal and private information about themselves.  Friends are there to celebrate with you.  They are there to cry with you.  Friends think about you when others don’t. Friends take care of you.  Friends don’t laugh at your dreams and they tell you theirs.  Friends bail you out of awkward situations, cover for your mistakes when for example you intone the wrong antiphon or psalm.  When you play the wrong hymn, they recognize the mistake and quickly change gears to match your melody.   They set the buffet table for you when you forget that you are the server.  Friends sit at the table for a few extra minutes and are quietly thankful that Divine Providence has chosen these people, at this time and place to befriend you.  Friends are alert to anticipate your needs and they aren’t disappointed when you overlook theirs.  It comes down to this: you like the person you are when you are with your friends.

Jesus calls each of us “friend.”  But do we treat Jesus as a friend?  When have I abused or betrayed this special friendship?  When have I ignored our friendship?  In what ways do I demand that my friend Jesus do more for me than I would do for Him?  Jesus’ humbly served others.  Is that my attitude or do I try to get others to do things for me?  Do I play tit-for-tat and make bargains with God?  I promise if You do this, I’ll do that.

Jesus looks for ways to get together with me in my daily life.  He offers me opportunities in Word and Sacrament.  Do I take advantage of these opportunities?  Or do I figure out ways to avoid time with Jesus?  I know Jesus hears my prayers.  How often do I talk to Him in prayer?  Jesus goes in search of people to talk to.  Would I rather not leave my comfort zone?  Jesus tells me the secrets of salvation.  Do I trust Him with my secrets, even my secret sins?

Jesus gifts us with His constant companionship.  Consider this: If I am faithful solely to community prayer times, that’s approximately 14 hours a week.  How much of the remaining 154 hours a week do I spend with my divine companion?  Jesus truly is at our beck and call.  Let us pray to remain in this friendship and strive daily to be a true friend to our God.

 

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

First Reading:  Acts 8:5-8, 14-17         Second Reading:  1 Peter 3:15-19
Gospel:   John 14:15-21
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Community, Easter, Faith, friends, Friendship, God, Jesus

Divine Mercy Sunday

April 17, 2023 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Yesterday, the Second Sunday of Easter, in days gone by, was known as “Low Sunday” – a lesser Easter celebration – or “Quasi-modo Sunday” from the first two words of the Latin entrance antiphon at Mass: “Like newborn infants” speaking about those baptized at Easter.  It is the day that the newly baptized officially put away their white robes, hence, it was known liturgically as the “Sunday of putting away the albs.”   And yes, the name of this feast is the origin of the name of the hunchback, Quasimodo, in Victor Hugo’s “The Hunchback of Notre Dame.” The foundling was so named because he was discovered at the cathedral on the Second Sunday of Easter.

For centuries the Easter liturgies have proclaimed the mercy of God.  From Holy Thursday to Easter Sunday to the Eighth Day of Easter, the divine love song of mercy is chanted with abundant alleluias.   In tomorrow’s responsorial psalm we will sing three times, “His mercy endures forever.”

In the year 2000, at the Mass for the canonization of St. Faustina Kowalska, Pope John Paul II made a surprising announcement in his homily.  “It is important that we accept the whole message that comes to us from the word of God on this Second Sunday of Easter, which from now on throughout the Church, will be called ‘Divine Mercy Sunday.’ ”   Clearly it is not a new feast, but neither is it an optional title for this solemnity; rather, Divine Mercy is the integral name for this Feast Day.

For many people there are two contemporary stories that continue to stand out in memory.  One is the story of the Amish community that walked to the home of the man who had killed 5 of their children to tell his widow they forgave her husband for what he had done, and they consoled her for the loss of her spouse. They buried their anger before they buried their children.

The other well-known story of forgiveness that you may recall was depicted on the cover of TIME magazine in 1984.  It pictured a prison cell where two men sat on metal folding chairs. The younger man wore a black turtleneck sweater, blue jeans and white running shoes. The older man was dressed in a white robe and had a white skullcap on his head. They sat facing one another, up close and personal. They spoke quietly to keep others from hearing their conversation. The young man was an attempted assassin; the older man was Pope John Paul II, his intended victim. The pope held the hand that had held the gun whose bullet had torn into his body.  At the end of their 20-minute meeting, Ali raised the pope’s hand to his forehead as a sign of respect. John Paul shook Ali’s hand tenderly.  When the pope left the cell he said, “What we talked about must remain a secret between us. I spoke to him as a brother whom I have pardoned and who has my complete trust.”

Our Gospel (you’ll recall) begins with the risen Christ appearing to the apostles on Easter night. Jesus calms his disciples by saying and giving them “Peace.” He shows them the scars of his Passion, his wounded hands and side, the evidence of his saving work through his suffering, death and resurrection.  Then he breathes on them and explains what the divine breathing means with the words, “Receive the holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven, whose sins you shall retain are retained.” He gives to the apostles, from the treasury of divine mercy, the power of mercy for penitents and the assurance there is nothing for us to fear.  That’s what the divine mercy of God is all about.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

First Reading:  Acts 4:232-35         Second Reading:  1 John 5:1-6
Gospel:   John 20:19-31
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Divine Mercy, Divine Mercy Sunday, Easter, Jesus, Pope John Paull II, Second Sunday of Easter, time

Update from the Benedictine community in Lviv, Ukraine

May 12, 2022 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

The situation with the reception of refugees remains intense. People from the eastern regions of our country continue to arrive here and seek refuge.  Most of them managed to escape the bombardments by evacuation trains or green corridors and have already witnessed the explosions.  They are often very stressed and need to be taken care of.

On the day of the Lord’s Resurrection, there are 117 people (44 of them children) in our monastery without monks and nuns (139 in total).  We were able to increase the number of beds a little and create a more comfortable stay for them.  In total, more than five hundred people during this period asked to stay overnight or stayed at the monastery for some time.  Now we have mostly families who are permanent and don’t want to go any further.  With some of the families we developed a warm and friendly relationship, they quickly became part of our family.  At the Easter Vigil there was the Baptism of our youngest resident, Nicol Scholastica, who was only two weeks old at the time of her arrival.

Thanks to your help we can take these people in and give them everything they need, and we are infinitely grateful that you are sympathetic to our suffering and that you are close to us in such a concrete way.

The Benedictine Sisters of Florida and our donors have contributed to the refugee relief.

We thank you for your loving support to the Sisters and their missions!

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Filed Under: Prayer Tagged With: Baptism, Benedictine Sisters of FL, Benedictine Sisters of Florida, Easter, Ukraine, Ukraine update

Divine Mercy Sunday

April 25, 2022 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

In our missalettes, this Sunday is labeled: Second Sunday of Easter OR Sunday of Divine Mercy but according to liturgical guidelines the reverse would be more appropriate.  During the Jubilee Year 2000 Pope John Paul decreed: “It is important that we accept the whole message that comes to us from the word of God on this Second Sunday of Easter, which from now on throughout the Church will be called “Divine Mercy Sunday”.  It is this love which must inspire humanity today, if it is to face the crisis of the meaning of life, the challenges of the most diverse needs and, especially, the duty to defend the dignity of every human person.”  The decree continues: “While “Divine Mercy” is clearly not a new feast, neither is this now an optional title for this solemnity.”

But, In a by-gone tradition, tomorrow was known as “Low Sunday” – a lesser Easter celebration or “Quasi-modo Sunday” from the first two words of the Entrance antiphon at Mass.  Some places also refer to this Sunday as the “Sunday of putting away the albs – the white baptismal robes.”

Here’s another bit of trivia.  In England, there was a strange custom, on the Monday and Tuesday after Low Sunday, between the hours of 9 a.m. and noon.  Those two days became known as “Hoke Day.”  (“Hoke” – related to “hocus pocus” – actions performed in an exaggerated or overly sentimental way.)  On Monday, men “captured” women to auction.  On Tuesday, the women reciprocated by capturing the men for ransom and both days the money was given to the Church.

The Gospel for this feast begins with the risen Christ appearing to the apostles on Easter night.  Jesus calms his disciples by sharing with them “Peace.”  He shows them the scars of his Passion, his wounded hands and side, the evidence of his saving work through his suffering, death and resurrection.  Then he breathes on them and explains what the divine breathing means with the words, “Receive the Holy Spirit.”  He gives to the apostles, from His treasury of divine mercy, the assurance, so important to remember, that there is nothing to fear.

A trend that became more prominent since COVID times is one among media services –  the practice of closing the evening news with a pleasant event in hopes that in some small way it will balance the stories of violence, horror and tragedy.  The newscaster shares illustrations of volunteer service, almsgiving, one-on-one forgiveness and kindness and similar examples of “divine mercy” in action.  Some of these incidents, like this one in 2006, seem to keep resurfacing.  You may remember the story of the Amish community that walked to the home of the man who had killed 5 of their children to tell his widow they forgave her husband.  They consoled her for the loss of her spouse.  They buried their anger before they buried their children. 

Another not-to-be-forgotten story of forgiveness was depicted on the cover of TIME magazine in 1984.  Two men sit knee-to-knee, up close and personal in a prison cell.  The younger man wears a black turtleneck sweater, blue jeans and white running shoes.  The older man is dressed in a white robe and a white skullcap on his head.  The two spoke quietly, so discretely that no one else was privy to the words that passed between them.  The young man was an attempted assassin; the older man was Pope John Paul II, his intended victim.  The two men gave living witness to the words, that 26 years later, the intended victim, Pope John Paul spoke in his declaration on the first DIVINE MERCY SUNDAY.  In the picture on the journal is of the pope holding the hand that had held the gun with the bullet that had torn into his body.  At the end of their 20-minute meeting, raising the pope’s hand, Ali pressed the pope’s hand to his own forehead as a sign of respect.  John Paul shook Ali’s hand tenderly.  When the pope left the cell he said, “What we talked about must remain a secret between us.  I spoke to him as a brother whom I have pardoned and who has my complete trust.”  John Paul’s deed has become an icon of living mercy.

These, and other stories, teach us that forgiveness is central.  They show us in a real sense that God’s forgiveness depends on our being the first to extend forgiveness, starting with forgiveness of self for shortcomings. That’s what the mercy of God is all about.  This is the gift of mercy we celebrate on Divine Mercy Sunday.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

Kindly include in your prayers a remembrance of our monastery cook, Shawnn Leach, who passed away at home on Thursday afternoon.  At this time any information and arrangements are pending.  May Angie, his wife, and Shane, his son who found Shawnn in distress at home, be comforted by faith and caring friends.  May Shawnn rest in peace!

First Reading: Acts 4:232-35             Second Reading: John 5:1-6
Gospel: John 20:19-31
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Amish, buried anger, buried children, Christ, Divine Mercy, Divine Mercy Sunday, Easter, monastery cook, Pope John Paul II, Shawnn Leach

Happy Easter

April 17, 2022 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

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Filed Under: Prayer Tagged With: blessed, Easter, Happy Easter, he is risen, Jesus has risen, Joyful

Holy Thursday

April 14, 2022 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

It is Holy Thursday.  The daily events continue to unfold in the house.  Sr. Mary Romana and Kathleen Daye are outside tending to the garden.  It is the season for picking blueberries and mulberries.  The fruits of their labor (and that of Sr. Miriam) will come into the chapel and the kitchen for the Easter celebration.  Sr. Miriam (ever the teacher) has put out a single sheet displaying butterflies of the rainforest (in color!) for the sisters to enjoy.  Two native to our area are included: the zebra longwing and the spicebush swallowtail.  I am not surprised.  It can feel very tropical here some days.  Sr. Donna will be working in the kitchen making preparations for the weekend (e.g. baking a lamb shaped cake for Sunday and hot cross buns for tomorrow).  Sr. Roberta sat with our two guests at breakfast and is now on a Zoom call, mostly likely with one the many charities she supports with her presence.  Volunteer Jo Shine has come to join us for the Triduum.  She is an expert at drying dishes and putting them away in their proper place.  Employee John Barthle has moved the cactus out of the chapel.  It will soon be time to come in from our forty days in the spiritual desert of Lent.  Sr. Elizabeth, our sacristan, and Sr. Mary David, our liturgist, are making preparations for the Holy Thursday Mass.  Srs. Jean and Donna have left for their ministry at Daystar Hope.  They, together with other volunteers, will be there this morning to distribute food and clothing to those who come and ask.  Sr. Mary Clare is in her office, answering phone and email inquiries about monastery retreats.  Sr. Margaret Mary is practicing the keyboard and will be accompanist for tonight and tomorrow’s liturgies.  Some sisters are doing last minute laundry.  Sr. Dianne is putting final touches on the Easter Sunday liturgies.  Marietta Dinopol has gone for a walk.

All of this busy-ness will come to a halt this evening as we enter into the Triduum, the liturgical expression of the Mystery of our Christian faith.  Rest assured that we will take you and your intentions with us.  Blessings to you and yours during this holy time.

~by Sister Eileen Dunbar

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