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Baptism of Jesus

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“Yes, Now’s the Time!”

Maybe you’ve heard the story about the fellow wandering soul, lost in thought, who stumbled upon a baptismal service one Sunday afternoon.  This was one of those “down by the river” sort of baptisms in the warm waters of the South.   Curious about what was going on, this fellow walked right down into the water and stood next to the Preacher.  When the minister finally noticed him, he asked the young man, “Are you ready to find Jesus?”  With a quizzical look and some hesitancy in his voice, he answered: “Yes, Preacher, I think I am.” The minister then dunked the fellow under the water and pulled him right back up.

“Did you find Jesus?” “No… should I have?!” The preacher then dunked him under for a bit longer, brought him up and said, “Now, brother, have you found Jesus?” “No … I haven’t, Preacher.” The preacher in disgust held the man under for at least 30 seconds this time; brought him to the surface of the water and repeated the question, “Friend, are you sure you haven’t found Jesus yet?” The confused fellow wiped his eyes, gasping for breath said, “Naw, Sir, are you sure this is where he fell in?”

Sound familiar?  Isn’t that sometimes how we are?  Our heads under the waters washing over us?  Cares, distractions, prayer for others’ intentions, confused by the circumstances of our life?  Looking for Jesus in muddy waters of our own making?  Sometimes we aren’t quite sure if “now” is the right time for things. At the Jordan River, about 30 years after Jesus was born, NOW was the time. If you could go back and stand on the shoreline of that river in the wilderness, you’d probably be nodding your head in agreement, “Yes, now is the time!”

John recognized Jesus as one who didn’t need a baptism of repentance or forgiveness. He knew that Jesus was much greater than he was, and that he wasn’t even fit to tie Jesus sandals. John must be thinking, “This is backwards! This shouldn’t be happening this way!”  But listen to Jesus’ response, “‘Let it be so now; it is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness.” And John consented.  Jesus was saying, “At another time, John, you would be right in what you’re thinking. But NOW is the time for this baptism. This is what my Father in heaven is asking of us NOW!   NOW is the time for Jesus to begin his public mission, the course that would take him to the cross. NOW we hear the Father’s affirming commendation: “Outstanding, Son!”

In our lives, too, there have been times, (haven’t there?) when we had no idea how close the kingdom of heaven had come to us.  A time when you just didn’t see it or recognize it for what it was. You had no idea that God would show up in that way, that place, that time, that situation.  You can look back and realize what you missed.

How many times, I wonder, do we ignore God simply because we have no idea or we doubt the possibility?  Or we’re just plain were oblivious to the truth that divine providence is working in the mix.  “And do you come to me?” That’s not just John’s question; it’s also ours. Sometimes it just seems too incredible to believe that God would come to us. Maybe it’s because we see God as distant … sitting on a throne, up there in heaven … observing but not really involved.  Maybe it’s because we see ourselves as unworthy and undeserving. Maybe it’s because we were raised with the idea that God is more concerned about our behavior than our life. Maybe the pain, difficulty, and losses in one’s life have caused them to wonder whether God even cares. Maybe God’s ways don’t fit within our expectations. God won’t fit within our box and we can’t seem to get out of it.

Whenever or however that question comes up for you – reach down deep – you DO know the answer.  The answer is found in the baptism of Jesus. His baptism answers once and for all the question, “And do you come to me?”  He answers: “Allow it for now… thus it is fitting.” That’s Jesus’ answer to John … and, to you, to me, to everyone.  “Allow it for now.”

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

 

 

First Reading:   Isaiah 47:1-4, 6-7         Second Reading:  Acts 10:34-38
Gospel:   Mark 1:7-11

 

 

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Solemnity of the Epiphany

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Some say this Gospel reading raises more questions than insight.  Sometimes we think we know more about something than we really do know. A case in point is the Gospel text about the birth of Jesus and the story of the three wise men.  We even think we know their names. We believe that they came from the east bringing their gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh for the baby Jesus. Finally, we think calling them wise is justified.  What is factual and what is legend?  And, what ever happened to the gifts the Magi gave the young Jesus and his family?

We can dispense with the information there were three Kings. Scripture simply does not say how many there were.  We know there was more than one but we can’t assume just because there are three gifts there were three givers   Nor does Scripture tell us their names; that’s tradition but not factual.    We can’t be sure either that they came from the East.  It seems a more likely conclusion if they saw the star in the eastern sky they would be coming the West.

A detail we can be fairly certain about is when these men arrived at the home of Jesus.  It was before His second birthday since we know that Herod had all the male children two years and younger killed in order to catch Jesus.

Scripture teaches us that they made a connection between that particular star and that something phenomenal was happening.  King Herod heard the news that these new comers were seeking for the King of the Jews. Now, Herod thought of He was King of the Jews.  This was the first he was hearing about a rival.  He was a very fearful person –  he was also shrewd one.  Knowing about the prophecy of Micah that a king would be born in Bethlehem he spoke to the wandering astrologers, told them to go to Bethlehem, find and let him know where the new king was and he would come later to worship him.

The unwitting Wise Men were about to return to tell Herod where they had found Jesus. However, God directly intervened and warned them to take a different route home. The Spirit also warned Joseph in a dream to get the family out of Bethlehem and flee to Egypt. Because of these interventions, the life of the young Jesus was spared.

As we can see, the Wise Men weren’t so wise after all. If it had been left to their wisdom, the infant Jesus would have been found and killed by Herod.  Not unlike the common people, they did not figure out by human wisdom that the King of the Jews had been born.  No one came to Jesus because they had reasoned it out. The angels had to announce it to the shepherds that Jesus had been born. It was by the grace of God that the Magi were led to the child Jesus, and that Jesus was protected from the wrath of Herod.

There’s our lesson – if we are to know anything about the true meaning of Christmas it will have to come by God’s grace. Unless God opens up our hearts – and we allow them to be pried open to receive the truth, we will never know it.

In case you noticed I never answered the question: what became of the gifts the Magi gave the child?  That was not a question that had come to my mind until a visit at the local Dollar Tree.  A colorful story of a child’s generosity was peeking out from a tumbled jumble of after-Christmas selections.   “The Miracle of the Myrrh” is an original, fanciful tale of what became of the Little Drummer Boy, Mary (Jesus’ mother) and the Kings’ gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. What a treasure for only $1.25!

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Christmas this year is a mixture of emotions for the Sisters.   Our Sister Mary Clare died on December 22nd  – funeral Mass and burial on January 8th.

   May you and your loved ones know good heath and peace in 2026.   Best wishes from the Benedictine Sisters – be assured we you are remembered in our prayers.

 

 

 

First Reading: Isaiah 60:1-6              Second Reading: Ephesians 3:2-3a, 5-6
Gospel: Matthew 2:1-12
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Sister Mary Clare Neuhofer, OSB

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Sister Mary Clare Neuhofer OSB, a member of the Benedictine Sisters of Florida, died peacefully on December 22, 2025 at the age of 87 after a period of declining health. Baptized Sophia Neuhofer, she was the sixth child of Helen (Barthle) and Joseph P. Neuhofer. She grew up in a family of 11 children in St. Joseph, Florida on the family farm. Her family had a special devotion to the Sacred Heart which she carried with her throughout her life.

Sr. Mary Clare attended Holy Name Academy in Saint Leo, Florida and entered Holy Name Monastery (then Priory) one week after graduation. Sr. Mary Clare made her final profession as a Benedictine Sister on December 16, 1960.  She earned a Bachelor’s degree in Music Education at Saint Scholastica College in Atchison, Kansas in 1969, and pursued graduate studies in Musicology at the University of Indiana Bloomington and Theology at St John’s University in Minnesota. During her 68 years as a Benedictine Sister, she served internally as formation director, monastery treasurer, member of the Monastic Council, Prioress, and hospitality minister. During all this time, she was also organist and Music Director of the monastery, stopping only when health concerns prevented her from continuing.

Her external ministries included administrative positions at Saint Leo College now Saint Leo University, finishing her time there as Assistant to the President for Campus Ministry. She was a classroom teacher and music teacher in the Florida Catholic schools. She also served as a member of the Board of Trustees of Saint Leo University, Secretary for the Pasco County Board of Catholic Charities, and Vice Chairman of the Board of Catholic Charities for the Diocese of St. Petersburg.

Sr. Mary Clare loved reading, especially murder mysteries, and enjoyed working the New York Times crossword puzzle with other sisters on Sunday night. She also loved to travel and took every opportunity to explore unfamiliar regions of the USA. As hospitality minister she enjoyed greeting monastery guests and getting to know them. But her first love was always music.

Sr. Mary Clare was predeceased by her parents, Helen and Joseph P. Neuhofer; her siblings: Mary Neuhofer, Sister Mary Dorothy Neuhofer OSB, Joe Neuhofer, Paul Neuhofer (Mary A.) Gertrude LaBruzzo (Pete), Leo Neuhofer, and Frank Neuhofer.

Sr. Mary Clare is survived by her siblings: Lena Pearson (Malloy), Patrick Neuhofer (Mary Ann) and Carl “Mike” Neuhofer (Marcia), her Benedictine family, and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

The Reception of Sister Mary Clare’s cremains and Vigil Service with Evening Prayer will be held at Holy Name Monastery, 12138 Wichers Road, Saint Leo, Florida on Wednesday, January 7, 2026 at 6:00 p.m. with a Funeral Mass held on Thursday, January 8, 2026 at 10:30 a.m. Following the Funeral Mass, burial will be in the sisters’ section of the Abbey Cemetery at Saint Leo University.

Donations in her memory may be made to Benedictine Sisters of Florida, PO Box 2450, Saint Leo FL 33574-2450. 

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Feast of the Holy Family

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Today the Church celebrates the Feast of the Holy Family.  So, what does that mean to (and for) us as monastics?  We came from a family, we still have families and here we live in an intentional family we call community.  We are guided by the simple, yet profound, guidelines designed by St. Benedict, a man of great wisdom, compassion and common sense.  We know that after some time of living with his original Rule, he added advice based on his lived experience with a great variety of characters.  Imagine having to warn his men not to sleep with knives, to wear clean underwear on a trip, for the learned to help those who could not read.  His prudence shines through when, in so many words, he says: this is what works for us now – if the schedule of psalmody, the daily schedule and other daily living details don’t fit your need, change it.

It is the spirit of the Rule that has survived because Benedict, even in his youth, had a deep understanding of human psychology.  A study of his early life tells us that he spent much time with his grandparents who lived a few miles from his home.  Along the trek to their summer home he passed the huts and caves of hermits, wise “seasoned” men and women.  Before Benedict was sent to Rome to pursue academics, he and his twin sister spent hours chit-chatting with these solitary men and women to absorb the wisdom and practical advice from the older generation.  This is evident in the Rule.  Notice how he tempered discipline with compassion and saw the spiritual quest as a joyful pursuit of God within the structures of ordinary life. It is this joyous delight in everyday spirituality that to this day makes the Rule come alive for so many. For over 1500 years his simple principles of living together under God’s love have been applied beyond monasteries, especially by Oblates, to family life.

If we only know the first word of the Rule “LISTEN” what an impact it could make on our own happiness and concord between peoples.  To truly listen requires perception, knowledge of human nature, biting the tongue before speaking and an ‘open-hands’ approach in conversation.  To listen requires an attentive spirit … not a scramble to respond with advice, a witty remark or a one-upmanship story.   When we truly listen we can see that anger is a cover for fear.  When we listen to another we can identify their feelings, let them resonant within and know that very often all the person wants is a signal that we care.

Benedict’s down-to-earth advice works in community, in our intentional family or for any living group, be it for family or dorm or apartment mates because of its inner dynamic. St. Benedict was not writing for an IB or Honors class of students. The Rule is not intended to be a great and lofty treatise on prayer or spirituality. Rather, the Rule is filled with practical guidance for ordinary people to live together. Benedict expected his followers to work hard, study hard and pray hard.  Benedictine life, in or out of a monastery, is a grace-full blend of prayer, work and living together – a simple, effective prayer life, open communication, mutual respect – not for mature saints but for those who choose to walk a path of life-long falling down and getting up in a community where each member is valued and loved unconditionally.

The Rule offers us a very high ideal, but it is a beautiful one, and one that we should never feel compelled to apologize for.   And when we breach the ideal we need to be humble enough to ask forgiveness both from God and from each other.

From that first word in his Rule LISTEN… to his advice to begin every good work with prayer … to keeping a lamp burning at night … to not loitering outside chapel if you are late … it is evident that Benedict saw God at work within the ordinary events of everyday life – in the joys and sorrows of our everyday lives.

So, LISTEN to your heart to your comrades’ hungers and longings, to God deep in your heart … just LISTEN – with your ears, but also with eyes and heart and feelings – and all other aspects of your life, our life in community, will fall into place.

 

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

Happy New Year!  Peace to all!

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Sister Mary Clare Neuhofer

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On  the evening of Saturday, December 20, 2025, Sister Mary Clare Neuhofer was placed on Hospice after several months of declining health. On Monday, December 22, 2025, Sister Mary Clare Neuhofer was called home to God. May she rest in peace.

She was supported in prayer through her final journey to God by her Benedictine Sisters in Christ at Holy Name Monastery, her family and friends.

May her soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace.

Funeral arrangements will be provided at a later date.

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