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Gaudete Sunday

December 19, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This Third Sunday of Advent is known as Gaudete Sunday, meaning Rejoice!  Seems to me one might be tempted to sing for the Open Hymn “Pretty in Pink” as the celebrant comes reverently to the altar in rose-colored vestments and the altar server lights the one rose or pink candle in the Advent wreath.  The candle and vestments remind us that the coming of Christ is very near. The focus is joy — not a fleeting feeling, but deep down spiritual gladness rooted in God’s goodness. This week encourages us to recognize the ways God is at work in our lives and to share that joy with others, especially those who are burdened or discouraged.  The story that follows is not AI generated but it is adapted from the Internet.

“One cold rainy night at 4 a.m. a young girl entered the diner where I worked.  The lass was trembling. She looked fragile, like she’d been crying, and she had no money. When I asked if she needed help, she stayed silent whether from the cold or fright.  I gave her a cup of warm cider and a muffin to calm her down.

My boss saw it and fired me on the spot for “giving away free items.” I was devastated. That job was the only way I had to support myself and my baby.

Before she left, the girl handed me a clean green sock — just one — and said, “This will save you one day.  Someday you’ll get the matching green sock.”

 I didn’t understand, but I kept it.  5 weeks later, I found the matching green sock on my doorstep. Mmmm! It was heavy. Inside was $30,000 in cash and a small note with a phone number. When I called, a man answered and said, “You don’t know me, but you saved my daughter. This is my ’thank you’!”

He explained that the night she came to the diner, her boyfriend had thrown her out with no phone and no wallet. My simple act of kindness kept her safe until her father found her. Later on, she told her dad everything and begged him to help me because I’d lost my job for helping her.  The money was his way of thanking me. He said, “Good people are rare. My daughter was lucky to meet one. So, I asked about you and found your address.”

That unexpected money truly saved me. It helped me open a small bakery — something I had dreamed of for years. The girl still visits whenever she’s in town. She’s now happily married, and her daughter is thriving.  I’m grateful every day that our paths crossed.”

In our fast and unpredictable world, even small gestures can create big shifts. A quiet act of compassion, a burst of empathy, or a wholesome moment can brighten any day.  Heartwarming stories highlight inspiring acts of kindness. Uplifting experience reminds us how powerful human connection and everyday good deeds can be. What did you do today to bring a smile to the face of the one God placed in your path?

~by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

 

 

 

First Reading:  Isaiah 35:1-6a, 10                  
Second Reading: James 5:7-10
Gospel Reading:  Matthew 11:2-11
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Advent, Advent Week 3, Christ, God, Joy, pink candle, third Sunday of Advent

Living in Joy

December 16, 2019 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This third Sunday of Advent is familiarly known as Gaudete Sunday – a Latin word that means “rejoice” – the first word of the Entrance Antiphon (at Mass): “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice.  Indeed, the Lord is near.”  As you know, we mark Gaudete Sunday by lighting a pink candle (in the Advent wreath) and the celebrant at Mass wears rose colored vestments.  I wonder why “rose”?  Yes, it’s a “happy” color but I wonder if it might be because when you dilute the ‘blue-ness” with the red that makes purple, the red shades are left lightly tinged with blue which creates more of a rose color.  The church rejoices because we are halfway to Christmas.  The Promised One is nearer at hand.  And, we are called to live as people of joy.

But in everyday life I get the impression that “joy” is on the decline.  Often what is the response when someone asks: “How was your day?”  My sense is that the theme of joy is something of a rare commodity.  I hear responses such as “It was OK” or “Could have been better.”  Or “I’m just so tired of so and so doing such and such.”  Or, “I’m exhausted.  Or “Don’t ask.”  To have joy or – or as they would say in slang – to do joy – is to have a deep sense of delight.  The Greek origins of the word literally means “for the heart, in its deepest place of passion and feelings, to be well.”  That’s what it’s like to have joy.

So why is joy so rare?  Well, it occurs to me (and not me alone), that for the experience of joy in one’s life, four qualities must also be found.  First, joy takes time.  Joy comes of living a “savored” life…of having time and taking time to smell the roses, to observe the pace of a Sandhill Crane as it crosses the street, to glory in a sunset.  Joy needs time.  There is this old monastic saying about living a joy-filled life.  If you are sipping tea or watering a plant, or gazing at an icon, to do just that.  We call this “being there” or being “in the moment.”  We know – and more than that, we believe, that each moment is pregnant with God’s real presence and promise and providential care.  Look for it; wait for it; savor it. Don’t just visit life; life needs time to be lived abundantly.

Secondly, to know joy requires acceptance – a “yes” to life –  to the life we’ve been given.  We may have discovered at some point that the script we’ve been handed in the play of life is not the part we thought we were trying out for.  Joy requires a deep willingness to accept we are God’s creatures and that God is at work according to God’s good pleasure.  Joyful persons accept the good gifts of life that actually are there.  They do not live in a state of resentment for what might have been or what “used to be.”  In God’s plan, there is a reason why today is not tomorrow.  We need all of today to prepare us to receive the promise of tomorrow.

So, to be joyful takes time and acceptance.  Third, it also requires desire.  We have to want joy.  Joy is a gift, a gift of the Spirit.  If you want the gift of joy, ask God for the gift with your heart open and hands to accept the gift.

And, fourth to be joyful we need stability, patience and endurance.  Maybe that’s why Jesus says: “Truly I tell you… you will have sorrow… but your sorrow will turn into joy.

Life for most people is not picture perfect, but there is so much joy to be found If we simply LOOK for JOY.  Be on the lookout – SEE and REFLECT on the JOY right before your eyes.  The more we dwell on everyday blessings, the more they seem to multiply.  And by experiencing more joy in my own life, I have more JOY to give away.  JOY is a beautiful gift to embrace, celebrate and give away at Christmastime.  And, in doing so, increase our own joy.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

 

First Reading   Isaiah 35:1-6, 10   Second Reading   1 Thessalonians 5:16-24
Gospel  Matthew 11:2-11
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Gaudete Sunday, God, Jesus, Joy, Living in Joy, pink candle, third Sunday of Advent

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