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Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

March 3, 2025 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This Sunday can fall either before Lent or after the Easter season, so it is not often celebrated.

THE GOSPEL IS A STRONG CHALLENGE to the lifestyle that prevails in most of our cities in the so-called developed world.  Jesus puts it bluntly: “You cannot at the same time be the slave of God and “mammon.” What Matthew is pointing out is that since human beings are not self-sufficient, we are dependent on something outside ourselves. It should be God, not the material goods we own.  Matthew concludes by reminding us to use our “one day at a time” confidence and remember that we are in God’s loving care. The graces we need will be there when we need them.  We can’t stock-pile graces for a rainy day.

What is in question is our attitude towards “things.”  Lent is a good time to review  the contents of our closets and other possessions.  Jesus is teaching us that our only real security is total trust in God.  We have to make a choice between God’s vision of life and a preoccupation with possessions. That involves different goals and visions of what is most important in life.  We can wear a veneer of Christian practice, but it won’t penetrate below the surface of our skin.

Jesus preaches something akin to “holy indifference” toward material goods. It should be obvious that some material things — like food and clothing and shelter — are necessary for daily living and everyone has a right to have these things.  The attitude of ‘holy indifference’ is not to be confused with an attitude of not caring about anyone or anything.   On the contrary, a person who practices holy indifference cares much and deeply and says ‘yes’ only to what is needed.

In the ordinary run of things, worry is a waste of time and psychic energy because it’s all about being uneasy about what might happen and will probably never happen. (Father) Tony de Mello quotes the Buddhist axiom: “Why worry?  If you don’t worry, you die; if you do worry, you die.  So, why worry?”    Fr. Tony continues: “Be yourself.  Be here.  Be now.”  God has provided you with everything you need right now to be happy.”  Our lives would be transformed if only we could really take Jesus’ advice: “Do not worry about tomorrow: tomorrow will take care of itself.”

If you tend to be a worrywart, Jesus has a remedy for you.  He says, look at the birds of the air and the flowers in the field.  They do nothing except be themselves and God takes care of them.  People are often so busy regretting the past or fretting about what MIGHT BE in the future that they can’t enjoy life.

Sounds so logical but you and I both know that everyone here worries about something. Some of us probably only worry every now and then. Some of us could win the prize for the world’s “expert worrier”. If we find ourselves with nothing to worry about, we worry that there’s nothing to worry about… so we worry until we figure out what that “nothing” is.  Right?

You know, worry is almost always about assuming control over things.  That’s a control that God never meant for us to have. Assuming control for the future is just not part of what we’re designed to do. Jesus says, “Can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life?”   We don’t have that kind of power.   But we can come into the peace of “the birds of the air and the flowers of the fields” when we are content with just being a human being and stop trying to be God.  “Let go, let God!”  This Gospel lesson reminds us that we are called to trust in God who knows what we need and when we need it.  We are called to believe that God will give it to us, when we need it.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

Prepare ye that way for the good Lenten experience.

God bless!

 

 

First Reading:   Isaiah 49:14-15         Second Reading:  1 Corinthians 4:1-5
Gospel:   Matthew 6:24-34
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Compassion of Christ

November 14, 2022 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This is one of several of Jesus’ clear “end of time” reminders.  “The coming of the Kingdom of God cannot be observed, and no one will announce, ‘Look, here it is, or there it is.’  Don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough trouble of its own.”  In this Gospel we have a warning and a promise. “This is your chance to tell the Good News. Do not worry about what to say for I will give you wise words.  None of your enemies will be able to prove that you are wrong. They will not be able to say that your words are false.”  These words of Jesus, quoted by Luke, remind me that when I am in a situation I can depend on Jesus’ promise: “I myself will give you wisdom, wise words, in speaking.”

Occasionally I find amusement by reading horoscope predictions at the end of the day.  It’s amusing to see if yours played out during the day that’s ending.  A few months back, my Scorpio sign read like a fortune cookie: “Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do but gets you nowhere.”  Some days that “rocking chair” could work ruts in the carpet!

What kinds of things do we stew about?  Here’s the top-of-the-list items that researchers tell describes the typical worry patterns.

+  40% of our worries are things that will never happen

That’s a huge chunk that we can let go of that otherwise might keep us awake at night. 

+  30% of our worries are about the past

…which can’t be changed anyway so why not dump the gunny sack!   

+  12% are about criticism by others, mostly untrue – and many imaginary

So why do we so often assume that other people are going to spend their precious time thinking about “me”?

+ 10% are about health, which only gets worse with stress

Wouldn’t it be more helpful to use some relaxation techniques?  Find ways to loosen up and let our bodies work their own magic on the knots?

+  Only 8% are about real problems that CAN be solved

This is where we need to spend our energy and focus our prayer.  At the same time, be carefully aware to play “hands off” with trying to offer God the only right solution.  Our limited eyesight most likely will only see a rather self-serving solution.  “God-sight” knows the key to the best fix for all concerned. 

It’s a good time to draw on the sentiments of the Serenity Prayer:  God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, (here’s the key sentence) and the wisdom to know the difference.

Keep in mind that worry and fretting leave wiggle room to come between me and God.  Lying just below the surface may be the view that God has somehow lost control of the situation and we’ve lost trust in God’s omnipotent care for us.  A legitimate concern should draw us closer to God and cause us to rely on divine providential love for us.

By our Corporate Commitment we profess “to respond to the needs of the people of God with the compassion of Christ.”  But how can we do that if we have not learned to depend on the compassion of Christ?  Saying the words is one thing; living with a firm conviction that compassion begets compassion is altogether another matter.  Let us live by the motto:  Words move; example motivates.”   It is our lives, not our words, that make us credible. We pray, O God, may our lives, individually and collectively, be an example that motives all who meet us to be people of compassion.

 

~by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

Pray for our bishops who will be meeting in Washington D.C. November 14-17.  May they each be open, and responsive to, the voice of the Spirit.  May they travel in safety and peace.

 

 

First Reading  Malachi 8:19-20a               
Second Reading 2 Thessalonians 3:7-12  
Gospel Reading  Luke 21: 5-19

 

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