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My yoke is easy and my burden is light

Service, not status, is the measure of a true Christian

November 6, 2023 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

In this Gospel we see Jesus under fire.  In turn, He speaks sternly to the religious leaders of Israel accusing the scribes and Pharisees of seeking the glory that rightly belongs to God.  In their misguided zeal for religion, they sought respect and honor for themselves rather than for God.

Jesus raises three objections.  They do not practice what they preach, they adopt a very narrow and burdensome interpretation of the Torah, and they seek public acknowledgment of their presumed spiritual superiority.  Instead of allowing any relaxation, they “built a fence around the Law.”  They fail to realize the truth that when religion becomes a depressing affair of burdens and prohibitions, individualistic dictums or endless rote prayers it ceases to be true religion.  Jesus condemns the lack of compassion of religious leaders, evidenced in their unwillingness to apply laws in a way that would make obedience less oppressive.  By contrast, Jesus says: “My yoke is easy; my burden is light and I will give you rest.”

The Pharisees Jesus is speaking to liked to be seated in places of privilege, prized seats on the left and right of their host.  You remember the request posed by the mother of James and John?  “Command that these two sons of mine sit, one at your right and the other at your left, in your kingdom.”

The Pharisees preferred to be addressed as “Rabbi.”  They liked to be called “Father”, to be known as the fathers of the faith.  They overlooked that respect has to be earned.  However, in spite of their personal failings, Jesus recognizes that the scribes and Pharisees are stewards of a great spiritual treasure.  He teaches respect for them for their role as official teachers and interpreters of the Torah.  Jesus demands that his disciples honor the office that these men occupy and to do what they teach, at least insofar as their teachings accord with the Torah.  Jesus taught, honored and applied two principles: reverence and respect i.e. reverence for God, the name of God and God’s due.  Jesus modeled respect for one’s parents and for a person’s life, the other’s possessions, and good name, lessons sadly lacking in many segments of our society today.

Jesus’ criticism was mainly a warning to future Christian leaders about possible abuses of authority in their ministry.  His words are a strong invitation and challenge to render humble, loving service without expecting honor or rewards.  Benedict echoes this attitude in The Rule in the opening lines of Chapter 7 on humility recalling the words of Scripture: “Whoever exalts themselves shall be humbled, and whoever humbles themselves shall be exalted.”  Jesus and Benedict remind us that service, not status, is the measure of a true Christian.  It’s not how many servants we have, but how many persons we serve.  

In today’s society where smear campaigning and negative comparative advertising are rampant, it is easy to unconsciously assimilate this style of language and attitude as acceptable.  Jesus may not have used these words but remember what you learned as a child: “When you point one finger at someone else, you have three fingers pointing back at yourself.”  Beware of being the “pot” calling the “kettle” black.  The Gospel message reminds us that whatever we are and have is not simply a birthright, but a gift given to us by our loving God.  Hence, let us use everything we are and have for the greater honor and glory of God.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

Have a good week.

 

 

First Reading:   Malachi 1:14- 2:2, 8-10         Second Reading:  James 2:14-18
Gospel:   Matthew 23:1-12
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My yoke is easy and my burden is light

July 10, 2023 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This Gospel is the same as that proclaimed a few weeks ago on the feast of the Sacred Heart.  Jesus offers us again: “Come to me – and I will give you rest – my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Let me ask you: Have you ever owned a woolen turtle-neck sweater?  And, you’re wearing it for the first time?  You soon discover that when you turn your head the collar scratches your neck?  Wear it too long and you may develop itchy red welts.  It looks so warm and cozy in the catalog and now there’s nothing you can do.  Your work day is just beginning; you have an important meeting and you don’t have a change of tops with you.  You get some relief if you sit perfectly still, for you see, it’s only when we wrestle with a “yoke” that it chaffs your neck.

Too often our first impulse is to complain about all I don’t have or what isn’t going my way.  How wonderful life would be if only she would shape up.  Have you ever tried to run a three-legged race?  Then you know the give and take it requires to match strides.  But until you do, you can wind up rolling on the ground and struggling more than once to get up without each pulling the other down.

The burden of ungratefulness weighs heavy on our hearts.  When I focus on what irks me about situations or about people and, sadly, forget all the gifts the flow into my life, the chaffing of the rope tied to the gunny sack I’ve loaded on my back will choke me.  How quickly it lifts when I consider all that I DO have.  When we ease up and take God’s view, the tussle eases.  Remember, the yoke “chaffs” until we give up the control we don’t really have anyway.

Jesus saw examples of this everywhere he went.  We marvel at Jesus’ powers of observation!  How many times must he have gazed out on a field watching a pair of yoked oxen dragging along a heavy cart or trudging to keep pace with a farmer sowing the next crop?  He saw the tussle and the back and forth between the pair, only hurting themselves with the push and pull of the yoke until a smooth rhythm was set.  It behooves us to listen attentively to Jesus’ words.  To hear His invitation, ‘Come to me’ is always an open invitation.  At any time, but maybe especially at times like now, when we and our country really need the peace, rest, protection of God’s love.  We ask Jesus to come into our hearts and fill our lives with gifts that only God can give us.  Remind yourself, especially when life is challenging, that by declaring that “My yoke is easy” Jesus means that whatever God offers us is custom-made to perfectly and personally fit us at this time in our lives.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Tuesday, July 11, we will celebrate the summer feast of St. Benedict in a special way.  Following the 10 a.m. Mass at the Abbey church, the Saint Leo University Student Affairs dept. are hosting the Sisters and Monks at a festive indoor BBQ lunch to mark the day. 

 

First Reading:  Zachariah 9:9-10         Second Reading:  Romans 8:9, 11-13
Gospel:   Matthew 11:25-30
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