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healing touch

” Your actions speak so loud I cannot hear what you are saying.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

September 9, 2024 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

In this Gospel story we find clues that promote our understanding of the sacramental “laying on of hands” and the sacredness of human touch.   We are struck by the physical means Jesus used to heal the man’s lack of hearing and speech:  the use of spittle and touch – both discouraged in today’s post-COVID “stay safe” world.  Jesus cannot explain to the deaf man verbally what He is about to do, so He uses a rough form of sign language to communicate His intentions. First, He sticks His fingers in the man’s ears to let him know that He is going to do something about his deafness. He spits on His finger and touches the man’s tongue to let him know that He is about to restore his speech. This might sound gross, but it’s what Jesus does!  And, it awakens faith in this man’s heart.

After touching the man, Jesus looks toward Heaven. This act serves two purposes. First, it communicates to the deaf man the origin of the healing.  Secondly, the act of looking toward Heaven demonstrates Jesus’ dependence on his Father. As Jesus raises his eyes heavenward, he “sighs”.   Of course, the deaf man cannot hear the sigh, but he can see Jesus’ expression. And, it speaks volumes, more than words could say: “I care about you and what you are going through!”  Jesus says one word, “Ephphatha”- “be opened”. When Jesus says this, the man’s hearing is restored and his tongue is loosed. He can hear and speak! What a miracle! One command from Jesus and his life has changed forever! The witnesses declared: “He has done all things well!”

This week we are invited to make an honest inventory of our true needs.    Have I found contentment? Am I close enough to God to receive guidance and strength? Have I secured peace of heart and mind? Deciding what we lack is the first step in securing it. Only then can we express our needs to Christ who has said: “Ask and you shall receive.”  But, remember God-time may not match our unspoken expectation.  When God takes time answering our prayers, it’s not because we’re not heard or that God doesn’t already know our needs.  God is giving us the gift of time to recognize what our true needs are.

One of the greatest weaknesses of the human heart is the inability to tune into people’s underlying needs.  One may indeed lack food for the table, but her real need may be for a fair wage for her 8-hr job.  We can hear the cries of broken, suffering people in lands across the sea, but be oblivious to the cues of the persons that every day are sitting right beside us. Remember the expression: “Your actions speak so loud I cannot hear what you are saying.”  (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

This man in the Gospel, though he was lacking hearing and speech, he had people around him that cared about him. They heard that Jesus was passing by, and they brought their friend to Jesus.  Benedict calls to us to “carry each other”. We can help one another understand the word of God spoken in community decision-making and help one another accept decisions that are contrary to personal wishes.  We are to uphold the weak, challenge the faint-hearted, rouse the sleepers, and open our eyes to the light that comes from God and our ears to the voice from heaven that every day calls out to us.  This is how St. Benedict teaches that we shall “progress in the way of life and faith, running on the path of God’s commands, our hearts overflowing with the inexpressible delight of love.”  With the help of community, he says: “We will run, and not grow weary”.

The closing words of our Gospel remind us that Jesus does all things well.  “All” may only be a three-lettered word but it is a mighty big word!  It covers a lot of territory. If one letter is missing – one person missing out in decision-making – all that God designs to be accomplished may not come to fruition. How can a two-legged stool keep balanced?  Jesus does all things well. Come to Him and let Him teach you the truth!  You’ll shake your head saying, “Well done! Well done! Very well done!”

 

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Pray for peace in our times… and guidance during the upcoming voting season.

 

 

First Reading:   Isaiah 35:4-7a         Second Reading:  James 2:1-5
Gospel:   Mark 7:31-37
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: deaf, God, Healing, healing touch, Jesus, Mark, speech

Stay Awake and Be Ready

August 9, 2019 by holyname 1 Comment

This week in the U.S. the Leadership Conference of Women Religious (LCWR) will be convening in Scottsdale, Arizona.  Let us pray for the leaders of women’s communities – and not solely for them – but for all levels of leadership in communities of women religious.  May they be women of faith, alive in hope.  They and all of us must live in hope with the assurance that however things turn out it makes sense in God’s plan.  Our daily stance must be the words of the psalmist: Stay awake and be ready.

Several years ago, Mother Teresa appeared on the Hour of Power television program.  The host, Pastor Robert Schuller, reminded her that the show was being broadcast all over America and in 22 foreign countries, including her native Yugoslavia.  He asked her if there was one message she would like to convey to all those viewers.  Her response was, “Yes, tell them to pray.  And tell them to teach their children to pray.”

Sadly, we live in a generation where there seems to be little hope in our world.  Jesus keeps reminding us to trust God.  He encourages us to let go of our resentments, our doubts and our fears.  He urges us to remember that there is never a storm so tumultuous that He cannot bring us to safety.  There is no night so dark that His light cannot penetrate it.  Nothing is going to happen to us that, with God’s grace, we can’t handle.  When hurricane winds howl, and tornado winds whip around us or flood waters are rising we have to remind ourselves that prayer is our most powerful and most reliable force.

Sometimes it may seem that no one is listening.  Do you recall how four-year-old impish Anna addressed God in Sydney Hopkins book: Mister God, This Is Anna?  She had great conversations with her Mister God.  So introduce yourself to God.  God is listening.  He will answer your prayers in His own time and in His own way.  God said, “I will never leave you or forsake you.”  Be on the lookout for God’s touches in your life.  One day Jesus may ask us: “Who touched me? ….  I know someone touched me, power went out of me.”  Be sure that your touches in people’s lives are God-like.  How we get along with each other says a great deal about how we love God and the kind of people we want to be.

You know of many instances when Jesus healed with a touch.  And how often do you say, or hear people say, “That really touched my heart.”  Our words do touch people – our compliments and affirmations but also the barbs, rudeness or hurtful teasing.  Our words leave their mark – will they be angry red scar marks or soft reminders of happy times?  Remember the little girl who was saying her nightly prayers.  (She said,) “Dear God, if you’re there and you hear my prayer, could you please just touch me?”  Just then she felt a touch and got so excited!  She said, “Thank you, God, for touching me.”  Then she looked up, saw her older sister and got a little suspicious.  “Did you just touch me?”  The sister answered, “Yes, I did.”  “What did you do that for?” she asked.  “God told me to” was the reply.

Our big question is: Do we know how to pray as we ought?  Do we merely ask for things, or do we dare ask to be transformed?  When we do so, do we promise to follow the promptings of the Spirit?  We can’t ask God to guide our footsteps if we are not willing to move our feet.

I will close with a portion of Nelson Mandela’s 1994 Inaugural Speech:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, successful, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of God.  Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.  There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.  We were born to make manifest the glory that is within us, it’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.  And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

 

 

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