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A Modern Day Parable

October 31, 2019 by holyname Leave a Comment

Jesus began his parable thus:  Two people went up to the temple area to pray…”

So, you know this parable – you’ve heard it many times – Luke says Jesus told the people about some who trusted in themselves, who believed that they were righteous, and they treated others with contempt.

This time around,  I will leave you simply to contemplate an adaptation of an ages-old story – a modern-day parable.

It goes like this ….   Three women religious – we’ll call them Sisters, but not siblings, you understand?   Well, these three Sisters were praying in their monastery chapel.  Two were on their knees; one sat (the picture of exhaustion). 

After a short time, one Sister felt herself rising out of her body.  She felt ever so holy.   As she moved closer to heaven, she could see the other Sisters (poor sinners – God have mercy).  She prayed for them, those poor souls! 

A second Sister was ecstatic – she was caught up in a trance – she felt a vision coming  on –  she began to hear heavenly voices of the angel choirs singing HER praises. 

The remaining Sister was filled with distractions ….  She wasn’t aware if the others were sitting, standing, kneeling or bowing.  Thoughts flitted everywhere!  She’d never finished that memo – oh, and she’d forgotten to return that phone call. Her thoughts took off in another direction.  How long it had been since she’d had a good cup coffee.  Oh, what she wouldn’t give for a Dairy Queen blizzard!  Or even a McDonald’s burger – or a Sonic shake.  Oops, missed it again – that’s our side of the chapel praying – better tune in.

Later that night the devil’s assistant was reporting on the day’s activity.  “Well,” the little apprentice devil said, “It was really quite interesting. I was working on three of those nuns at Holy Name in St Leo.   They all looked quite pious at their Evening Prayer Service.  But, I suppose I failed at the job you gave me.  I was successful in tempting only two of them!”

Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

First Reading – Sirach 35:12-14, 1618 * Second Rading – 2 Timothy 4:6-8, 16-18 * Gospel – Luke 18: 9-14

 

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“What do we want to be caught dead doing?”

October 1, 2019 by holyname Leave a Comment

This Gospel seems to be a case of “too little, too late.”  In desperation, finally, the rich man – suffering the consequence of his insensitivity to everyone but himself, makes a grand gesture.  When it dawns on him that he cannot save himself his early training takes over.  He calls on Abraham to have pity on his siblings.  He begs Abraham to at least give them a “heads up” about the dire cost of the repeated selfish pattern of their lives.  In the end, he acknowledges it is too late to save himself.  He has strayed too far from the kindness his mother had instilled in him in early childhood.

You may ask is this an historical account or is it a parable?  Or, is there a difference?  Is it the true story of two men who lived and died during the time of Christ’s earthly ministry?  Or is it a story made up by Jesus to drive home a point?

You see, by definition, a parable is a true-to-life story used to illuminate a truth. This is true even if all of the details never occurred exactly as presented in the story. Parables are special stories that may, or may not, reflect historical events. Nevertheless, they must be true-to-life – they must be based on a real-life situation that the hearers are familiar with. In other words, the story itself has to be based on events that could have happened, whether they ever actually did.

A parable must be a true-to-life story in order for it to have any meaning to those who hear it. To try to use a fanciful story containing elements that have no basis to the world in which men and women live would only serve to confuse people rather than providing them with spiritual light.

We can relate to the main character’s growing insensitivity.  How easily we too can become desensitized!  In some ways it’s good.  We can train ourselves by cultivating the habit of “selective sensitivity” (selective hearing and seeing) so that little annoyances fade into the background where it takes a concerted effort to notice them.  The crunch of fresh potatoes chips, the click of heels on the hall surface, the fan motor on the AC, even the blinking light on the chapel.

However, the opposite, too, may prevail.  I fear that as a nation, as individuals we can be bombarded by so many sources of media featuring stories of horrible torture and inhumane treatment; sustained hunger; the effects of natural disasters that it overwhelms our sensitivities so deeply that emotionally we shut down.  We suffer brain over-load.  We hear but we don’t listen.  We direct our attention to the next graphic depiction of raging violence or the devastation wrought by climate change on the New Jersey shoreline. The images flash, and the newspapers stories and pictures, slip through our minds like the story in a novel or frames in a comic book.  After a while we fail to separate between fact and fiction; between everyday happenings and once-a-week invented TV dramas.  How does this happen?  How can we continue to stay in touch with our gentler nature, our God-eyes and ears – the compassion of Christ that we promise to extend “to all those in our realm of influence”?  (Corporate Commitment)

Our dedication in being true to our corporate commitment is living proof that we are learning the lesson Jesus is teaching … We share in the ministry of the compassion of Jesus when we provide hope and comfort to God’s people.  The moral of the story, I believe, is captured in the prompting of Joan Chittister when she asks: “What do we want to be caught dead doing?”

I would like to suggest that our prayer intention for this week, to pray for an end to human trafficking, can be tied to the Gospel lesson.  We chose that intention without knowing (if I recall correctly) that Pope Francis would call upon the Catholic Church to celebrate this Sunday the World Day of Prayer for Migrants and Refugees with the theme “It is not just about migrants.” The week of prayer provides an opportunity, in Francis words, to recognize that “it is not only the cause of migrants that is at stake; it is not just about them, but about all of us, and about the present and future of the human family.”

I encourage each of you to read Pope Francis’ message that was released in advance of the celebration.  (It is below for readers – and posted in the Community for those in the house.)  You’ll see it highlights the theme and provides guidance to everyone who works on this issue.

Amos 6:1a-7/  1 Timothy 6:11-16/  Luke 16:19-31                                                         Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

The Holy See MESSAGE OF HIS HOLINESS POPE FRANCIS

FOR THE 105th WORLD DAY OF MIGRANTS AND REFUGEES 2019

 [29 September 2019]

“It is not just about migrants” Dear Brothers and Sisters, Faith assures us that in a mysterious way the Kingdom of God is already present here on earth (cf. Gaudium et spes, 39). Yet in our own time, we are saddened to see the obstacles and opposition it encounters. Violent conflicts and all-out wars continue to tear humanity apart; injustices and discrimination follow one upon the other; economic and social imbalances on a local or global scale prove difficult to overcome. And above all it is the poorest of the poor and the most disadvantaged who pay the price. The most economically advanced societies are witnessing a growing trend towards extreme individualism which, combined with a utilitarian mentality and reinforced by the media, is producing a “globalization of indifference.” In this scenario, migrants, refugees, displaced persons and victims of trafficking have become emblems of exclusion. In addition to the hardships that their condition entails, they are often looked down upon and considered the source of all society’s ills. That attitude is an alarm bell warning of the moral decline we will face if we continue to give ground to the throw-away culture. In fact, if it continues, anyone who does not fall within the accepted norms of physical, mental and social well-being is at risk of marginalization and exclusion.

For this reason, the presence of migrants and refugees – and of vulnerable people in general – is an invitation to recover some of those essential dimensions of our Christian existence and our humanity that risk being overlooked in a prosperous society. That is why it is not just about migrants. When we show concern for them, we also show concern for ourselves, for everyone; in taking care of them, we all grow; in listening to them, we also give voice to a part of ourselves that we may keep hidden because it is not well regarded nowadays.

“Take courage, it is I, do not be afraid!” (Mt 14:27). It is not just about migrants: it is also about our fears. The signs of meanness we see around us heighten “our fear of ‘the other’, the unknown, the marginalized, the foreigner… We see this today in particular, faced with the arrival of migrants and refugees knocking on our door in search of protection, security and a better future. To some extent, the fear is legitimate, also because the preparation for this encounter is lacking” (Homily in Sacrofano, 15 February 2019). But the problem is not that we have doubts and fears. The problem is when they condition our way of thinking and acting to the point of making us intolerant, closed and perhaps even – without realizing it – racist. In this way, fear deprives us of the desire and the ability to encounter the other, the person different from myself; it deprives me of an opportunity to encounter the Lord (cf. Homily at Mass for the World Day of Migrants and Refugees, 14 January 2018).

“For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same?” (Mt 5:46). It is not just about migrants: it is about charity. Through works of charity, we demonstrate our faith (cf. Jas 2:18). And the highest form of charity is that shown to those unable to reciprocate and perhaps even to thank us in return. “It is also about the face we want to give to our society and about the value of each human life… The progress of our peoples… depends above all on our openness to being touched and moved by those who knock at our door. Their faces shatter and debunk all those false idols that can take over and enslave our lives; idols that promise an illusory and momentary happiness blind to the lives and sufferings of others” (Address at the Diocesan Caritas of Rabat, 30 March 2019).

“But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight” (Lk 10:33). It is not just about migrants: it is about our humanity. Compassion motivated that Samaritan – for the Jews, a foreigner – not to pass by. Compassion is a feeling that cannot be explained on a purely rational level. Compassion strikes the most sensitive chords of our humanity, releasing a vibrant urge to “be a neighbor” to all those whom we see in difficulty. As Jesus himself teaches us (cf. Mt 9:35-36; 14:13-14; 15:32-37), being compassionate means recognizing the suffering of the other and taking immediate action to soothe, heal and save. To be compassionate means to make room for that tenderness which today’s society so often asks us to repress. “Opening ourselves to others does not lead to impoverishment, but rather enrichment, because it enables us to be more human: to recognize ourselves as participants in a greater collectivity and to understand our life as a gift for others; to see as the goal, not our own interests, but rather the good of humanity” (Address at the Heydar Aliyev Mosque in Baku, 2 October 2016).

 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my heavenly Father” (Mt 18:10). It is not just about migrants: it is a 2 question of seeing that no one is excluded. Today’s world is increasingly becoming more elitist and cruel towards the excluded. Developing countries continue to be drained of their best natural and human resources for the benefit of a few privileged markets. Wars only affect some regions of the world, yet weapons of war are produced and sold in other regions which are then unwilling to take in the refugees produced by these conflicts. Those who pay the price are always the little ones, the poor, the most vulnerable, who are prevented from sitting at the table and are left with the “crumbs” of the banquet (cf. Lk 16:19-21). “The Church which ‘goes forth’… can move forward, boldly take the initiative, go out to others, seek those who have fallen away, stand at the crossroads and welcome the outcast” (Evangelii Gaudium, 24). A development that excludes makes the rich richer and the poor poorer. A real development, on the other hand, seeks to include all the world’s men and women, to promote their integral growth, and to show concern for coming generations.

 “Whoever wishes to be great among you will be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all” (Mk 10:43-44). It is not just about migrants: it is about putting the last in first place. Jesus Christ asks us not to yield to the logic of the world, which justifies injustice to others for my own gain or that of my group. “Me first, and then the others!” Instead, the true motto of the Christian is, “The last shall be first!” “An individualistic spirit is fertile soil for the growth of that kind of indifference towards our neighbors which leads to viewing them in purely economic terms, to a lack of concern for their humanity, and ultimately to feelings of fear and cynicism. Are these not the attitudes we often adopt towards the poor, the marginalized and the ‘least’ of society? And how many of these ‘least’ do we have in our societies! Among them I think primarily of migrants, with their burden of hardship and suffering, as they seek daily, often in desperation, a place to live in peace and dignity” (Address to the Diplomatic Corps, 11 January 2016). In the logic of the Gospel, the last come first, and we must put ourselves at their service.

“I came so that they might have life and have it more abundantly” (Jn 10:10). It is not just about migrants: it is about the whole person, about all people. In Jesus’ words, we encounter the very heart of his mission: to see that all receive the gift of life in its fullness, according to the will of the Father. In every political activity, in every program, in every pastoral action we must always put the person at the centre, in his or her many aspects, including the spiritual dimension. And this applies to all people, whose fundamental equality must be recognized. Consequently, “development cannot be restricted to economic growth alone. To be authentic, it must be well rounded; it must foster the development of each man and of the whole man” (SAINT PAUL VI, Populorum Progressio, 14).

 “So then you are no longer strangers and sojourners, but you are fellow citizens with the holy ones and members of the household of God” (Eph 2:19). It is not just about migrants: it is about building the city of God and man. In our time, which can also be called the era of migration, many innocent people fall victim to the “great deception” of limitless technological and consumerist development (cf. Laudato Si’, 34). As a result, they undertake a journey towards a “paradise” that inevitably 3 betrays their expectations. Their presence, at times uncomfortable, helps to debunk the myth of a progress that benefits a few while built on the exploitation of many. “We ourselves need to see, and then to enable others to see, that migrants and refugees do not only represent a problem to be solved, but are brothers and sisters to be welcomed, respected and loved. They are an occasion that Providence gives us to help build a more just society, a more perfect democracy, a more united country, a more fraternal world and a more open and evangelical Christian community” (Message for the 2014 World Day of Migrants and Refugees).

Dear brothers and sisters, our response to the challenges posed by contemporary migration can be summed up in four verbs: welcome, protect, promote and integrate. Yet these verbs do not apply only to migrants and refugees. They describe the Church’s mission to all those living in the existential peripheries, who need to be welcomed, protected, promoted and integrated. If we put those four verbs into practice, we will help build the city of God and man. We will promote the integral human development of all people. We will also help the world community to come closer to the goals of sustainable development that it has set for itself and that, lacking such an approach, will prove difficult to achieve.

In a word, it is not only the cause of migrants that is at stake; it is not just about them, but about all of us, and about the present and future of the human family. Migrants, especially those who are most vulnerable, help us to read the “signs of the times”. Through them, the Lord is calling us to conversion, to be set free from exclusivity, indifference and the throw-away culture. Through them, the Lord invites us to embrace fully our Christian life and to contribute, each according to his or her proper vocation, to the building up of a world that is more and more in accord with God’s plan.

In expressing this prayerful hope, and through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, Our Lady of the Way, I invoke God’s abundant blessings upon all the world’s migrants and refugees and upon all those who accompany them on their journey.

 From the Vatican, 30 April 2019 FRANCIS

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A Parable …

September 9, 2019 by holyname Leave a Comment

While I was preparing this reflection, a long ago riddle came unbidden to mind.  I verified it on the Internet .. my memory was correct but I had it in a decade too early.  I was thinking it was from the 1950s … but jump forward a decade to the late 60s.   There was a quite popular parable about a pig and a mother hen strolling through a town plaza where there was a billboard with a graphic of a platter of bacon and eggs advertising all-day breakfast at a local café.  The mother hen turned to the pig and said, “Do you see, my Friend, the contribution we make to those human folks’ dining enjoyment?”

“Ah, but there’s a big difference,” said the pig, “Your contribution is just dedication.  Mine is total commitment.”  [Now, you may wonder how in the world this can be related to the Gospel …  well, it’s all about commitment, isn’t it?

So, really, is the pig the one who is the committed one?  For the pig to be a part of the bacon-and-egg breakfast, the pig has to be slaughtered.   But does the pig buy into the adage that life is an “all or nothing” proposition?

No one asked the little pig if it would like to be slaughtered. The pig certainly doesn’t volunteer for to be slaughtered.   Some might say that to be bacon was the pig’s destiny.  I’ll bet the little pig would disagree. The problem with being slaughtered is that the pig can only be slaughtered once.

This is a bit like a potential member that may start out strong but quickly fizzles out and looks for another monastery unless, we make a concerted effort to insure her allegiance and loyalty.  Without that sense of connection, it could be worse if she stays.    But …  is this real commitment? In a pig’s eye.

Now, I am not, nor have I ever been, a poultry farmer.  But, it seems to me for the hen to be part of the bacon and egg breakfast, she only has to do what is in her very nature – what she grew up to do. The hen was born to lay eggs. The hen doesn’t know how not to lay eggs. You don’t even have to ask for the eggs, the hen just does it. The best part is that the hen will continue to lay eggs for as long as she is physically able.

This is like the member that gives you years of sustained superior service because she has found her passion and revels in doing it every day.

Is this real commitment? You can bet the farm on it.

So how do you find these committed, passionate members? Going through the same old motions and asking the same old interview questions like “What are your strengths?  What is your greatest weakness? How could you contribute to our charism?” aren’t going to help us find the passionate Seekers for which we are looking.  It may help us find good volunteers – valuable?  Yes, most certainly.  But it won’t ipso facto help us find great, committed and contributing members.  This requires a live-in – a boot camp – experience.  An extended time of rubbing shoulders in the trenches of everyday life.  An experience of falling down and getting up with the support of mutual “long-timers” in the life.   The only way to find this commitment is to provide an environment for their passion to shine and to discern with them if theirs is a Benedictine vocation.

Perhaps the more important question is: “Have YOU found your true passion?  The thing that really gets you excited?”  (Don’t get confused – being good at something is not the same thing as BEING passionate about it.)  Jesus is the ideal coach to help you find your passion.  He certainly had his: save the world!  So associating with him, looking to his example, imitating his actions, his style of interactions, deep conversations with Him will help you not just “find” your passion.  His goodness, his enthusiasm for life will rub off on you.

Calling the pig the committed one is unadulterated poppycock.  [Yes, once the pig is slaughter, it is recycled to continue into another form providing sustenance for the consumer to do good in the world.]  But let’s be real!  The chicken is the truly committed and passionate one: day after day, year after year, doing what she knows God called her to, what she was made for, why she was created.  … Oh, it takes the right nourishment and a conducive environment.   “Free range” is for everyone.  But, once you have found your passion, your calling, the thing you cannot NOT do.  You cannot NOT be the person you were created to be.  Passion drives you, informs you – peaks your thirst for a deeper relationship and prompts you to do your part to uphold your end of the covenant.

First Reading   Wisdom 9:13-18b     Second Reading  Philemon 9-10, 12-17     Gospel Reading  Luke 14:25-33

Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

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Stay Awake and Be Ready

August 9, 2019 by holyname 1 Comment

This week in the U.S. the Leadership Conference of Women Religious (LCWR) will be convening in Scottsdale, Arizona.  Let us pray for the leaders of women’s communities – and not solely for them – but for all levels of leadership in communities of women religious.  May they be women of faith, alive in hope.  They and all of us must live in hope with the assurance that however things turn out it makes sense in God’s plan.  Our daily stance must be the words of the psalmist: Stay awake and be ready.

Several years ago, Mother Teresa appeared on the Hour of Power television program.  The host, Pastor Robert Schuller, reminded her that the show was being broadcast all over America and in 22 foreign countries, including her native Yugoslavia.  He asked her if there was one message she would like to convey to all those viewers.  Her response was, “Yes, tell them to pray.  And tell them to teach their children to pray.”

Sadly, we live in a generation where there seems to be little hope in our world.  Jesus keeps reminding us to trust God.  He encourages us to let go of our resentments, our doubts and our fears.  He urges us to remember that there is never a storm so tumultuous that He cannot bring us to safety.  There is no night so dark that His light cannot penetrate it.  Nothing is going to happen to us that, with God’s grace, we can’t handle.  When hurricane winds howl, and tornado winds whip around us or flood waters are rising we have to remind ourselves that prayer is our most powerful and most reliable force.

Sometimes it may seem that no one is listening.  Do you recall how four-year-old impish Anna addressed God in Sydney Hopkins book: Mister God, This Is Anna?  She had great conversations with her Mister God.  So introduce yourself to God.  God is listening.  He will answer your prayers in His own time and in His own way.  God said, “I will never leave you or forsake you.”  Be on the lookout for God’s touches in your life.  One day Jesus may ask us: “Who touched me? ….  I know someone touched me, power went out of me.”  Be sure that your touches in people’s lives are God-like.  How we get along with each other says a great deal about how we love God and the kind of people we want to be.

You know of many instances when Jesus healed with a touch.  And how often do you say, or hear people say, “That really touched my heart.”  Our words do touch people – our compliments and affirmations but also the barbs, rudeness or hurtful teasing.  Our words leave their mark – will they be angry red scar marks or soft reminders of happy times?  Remember the little girl who was saying her nightly prayers.  (She said,) “Dear God, if you’re there and you hear my prayer, could you please just touch me?”  Just then she felt a touch and got so excited!  She said, “Thank you, God, for touching me.”  Then she looked up, saw her older sister and got a little suspicious.  “Did you just touch me?”  The sister answered, “Yes, I did.”  “What did you do that for?” she asked.  “God told me to” was the reply.

Our big question is: Do we know how to pray as we ought?  Do we merely ask for things, or do we dare ask to be transformed?  When we do so, do we promise to follow the promptings of the Spirit?  We can’t ask God to guide our footsteps if we are not willing to move our feet.

I will close with a portion of Nelson Mandela’s 1994 Inaugural Speech:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, successful, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of God.  Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.  There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.  We were born to make manifest the glory that is within us, it’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.  And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

 

 

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What is it that compels us to accumulate rather than dispossess?

August 6, 2019 by holyname Leave a Comment

Most people are bothered by those passages of Scripture they DO NOT UNDERSTAND, but the passages that bother me the most are those I DO UNDERSTAND.                             Mark Twain

What shall I do, for I do not have space to store my harvest?  This is what I shall do: I shall build a larger barn.”   Now, I suspect most people figure that  Jesus was making reference to a barn such as we see on a farm or ranch.   Familiar sights?  But, I wonder, could we also apply the story to the “barns” that we build in our living spaces?

Ever notice how people (not you, of course) cannot leave a counter bare?  Or a closet empty?  Or a room, without using it for storage of some kind?   Some people do not want to leave “green space” in nature or their lives.  We increase storage space instead of disposing of excessive possessions – furniture, clothing, “things.”  What is it that compels us to accumulate rather than dispossess?  Sometimes it is just easier to plunk it down there and not have to deal with how to pass it on to a needy person.  When you hear word of a community yard sale do you wait so long to make a choice of what you could donate that the event passes you by?  Of worse, you attend the sale and find some treasures and bargains that call out to you: “I’m yours.”    Yes, your few pennies may have supported a worthy cause.  But your contribution of items for the sale may have served a dual purpose of supporting the cause AND unburdening your jam-packed closet and some of the clutter in your life.

And, what about the craft or sewing supplies that are gathering dust?  You know the ones you got when you had great plans to make things for the gift shop or for Christmas gifts.  Here is a chance to give them to people who will make items for the hospital gift shop.  Or provide local nursing home residents with an activity to occupy some of the long hours that stretch to their death.  Our small acts of dispossession and charity can send ripples far beyond our four walls.

To further expand the meaning of the Gospel story, consider what we store up in the “barns” of our minds.  We can “store up the treasure” of holy thoughts, of pleasurable memories of people we treasure.  Or, we can store up the memory of unpleasant, negative events or people, of resentments that we have gunny-sacked for years.  Or pack our minds full of the things we need to get done before we go to bed or the sun comes up on tomorrow or before rapidly advancing deadlines.  Did you forget that Jesus said: “Blessed are the poor in spirit” – the simple souls, the uncluttered minds, the trustful, hopeful people.

Here is a little trick for when you find yourself depressed or emotionally overwrought.  This type of stress is rumbling in the right hemisphere of your brain – the creative, emotional holistic side.  What to do?  Switch to your matter-of-fact left brain by doing math, writing factual material, working a crossword or Sudoku puzzle; organizing your desk, dresser or closet.  The emotional right brain will calm down.  [Adapted from Jane Cole-Hamilton, Wellspring Seminars]

However, if you feel time-stressed, over-burdened, burned out, that’s the left hemisphere of your brain pulling rank on you.  So switch to your right brain by playing a sport, singing, listening to music or with abandon play a musical instrument; take a leisurely walk, sit on the outdoor swing, breathe in deeply and enjoy nature.

When you enter into your annual retreat (or a day of reflection), start with a prayer that you can settle into the true spirit of “retreat.”   “Retreat” does not mean what I thought it did when I had to write spelling sentences in fifth grade.  I thought it meant re-treat (do it again or repeat a medical treatment). So, in my paragraph using the weekly spelling words I had the Army re-treating over multiple times (not a bad idea) but then I portrayed them withdrawing from the scene.  Talk about running in place!

Retreat can also mean to give ground.  We give ground from whatever is keeping us from relaxing in the spirit.  Relax – to lax again; like rehab for frozen stiff muscles and joints.  We squeeze our mental, spiritual muscles and then let go.  We squeeze ourselves to take a good look at what we are becoming, what we may need to get rid of, or pass on to another cause.    We want to re-lax even when that may mean hard spiritual work to de-clutter the “stuff” from our mind-heart barns.  We want to divest ourselves in order to make more “green space” in the environment of our lives.

As one of our elderly Sisters told me many years ago from her hospital bed:  “You just never know when this may be your last retreat.”  God said it, too: “You fool, this night your life will be demanded of you; and the things you have prepared, to whom will they belong?”

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress
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Religious Freedom Week

June 25, 2019 by holyname Leave a Comment

Today (June 22nd) in the United States, marks the opening of Religious Freedom Week, a time to reflect upon the challenges people of faith around the world are facing regarding their right to freely exercise their religion in their homes, houses of worship, and the public square.  The theme and intention for each day of the week will be highlighted on the hall bulletin board opposite the Formation / Liturgy office and remembered each day in the intentions at Evening Praise.  The Catholic bishops’ office of Religious Liberty will highlight three regions of the world where persecution of religious minorities is severe: the Middle east, Myanmar and Nigeria …  The bishops are asking that we be in solidarity with people throughout the world who suffer for their faith.

“One of the things people don’t understand is that the freedom of religion is more than the freedom to worship,” said Barbara Samuells, founder of Catholics for Religious Freedom.  “Most Catholics in the United States are ‘blissfully ignorant’ when it comes to threats to religious freedom.”

“They say, ‘I can go to church on Sunday, so there’s no problem with my religious freedom.  The biggest challenge for everyday Catholics who do understand about religious freedom and what needs to be done is getting people’s attention.”

The week has its roots in the “Fortnight for Freedom,” a two-week observance launched when the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops were working to get overturned a portion of the Affordable Care Act, referred to as the HHS mandate, that required all employers who provide health insurance to cover interventions that contradict Catholic teaching.

“The Fortnight for Freedom became so strongly associated with the HHS mandate that efforts were made to rebrand it to raise other issues as well. Emphasis was shifted to more about awareness, reflection, prayer and action.  Last year the USCCB changed its religious liberty committee from ad hoc to permanent status.

The theme of this year’s Religious Freedom Week is “Strength in Hope.”  Here in the U.S. the Catholic Bishops are using Religious Freedom Week to advocate for religious freedom in the areas of adoption and foster care.  The opioid crisis is putting a strain on the foster care system and the number of children in need of care is going up while the number of foster families is doing down.  The committee also is focusing on questions that have been put to nominees for positions on the federal bench. These questions that cast doubt on a nominee’s ability to serve because of their Catholic faith amount to an unconstitutional religious test for nominees.  Such questions – for instance interrogation about membership in the Knights of Columbus – may discourage our eligible and talented younger generation from going into public service fearing being scrutinized that way.

The focus of a number of “weeks” have expanded from the original Fortnight for Freedom to include the issue of religious freedom – Catholic Schools Week, National Migration Week, and National Marriage Week.

In the Gospel just read the disciples who encouraged Jesus to “dismiss the crowd so that they can go to the surrounding villages to find lodging and provisions.”  You heard Jesus solution: “Give them some food yourselves.”

That’s the challenge before us.  What, exactly, does Jesus mean by “food.”  The story is about food for the body in a deserted place.  People who live in fear and hiding lest they be persecuted or killed over the practice of their religion, certainly live in a deserted place.  The “food” they desire is the courage, the support to sustain them in faith.  We pray this week that all people of goodwill will be free to seek the truth and live in accordance with that truth.   May they find strength in hope, convinced that, as St. Paul wrote to the Romans, the sufferings of the present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory to come that will be revealed in us.” (Romans 8:18)  In the midst of current challenges may they, and we, (like the theme of the week says) seek the kingdom and find strength in hope.

PS: A little story with a Eucharist theme

One day (in a Montessori class of 4-5 year-olds) I had shown a filmstrip.  (Remember them?  They were the precursors of PowerPoint and Smart Boards?)    After the class had viewed the story of the Miracle of the Loaves and Fishes, I asked them to tell me the story.  Martha was so animated that the rest of the class sat mesmerized as she explained what happened.  “There was a little boy named Benjamin who had some bread.  He gave it to Jesus.  Jesus raised his eyes to heaven, thanked his Heavenly Father, and said (click your fingers) Bing!  And there was enough for everyone!” (Clue: The cue to move to the next picture frame.)

I think it is safe to predict you won’t hear the celebrant at Mass say “BING” – although it may ring in your head.  However, at the sacred words of consecration there will be enough for everyone – enough of Jesus for our whole world!  He is only depending on us to make room in our hearts and in our lives to respond generously and without hesitance to his query: “Where may I eat today? Where may I rest?”

June 23, 2019 – Solemnity of the Body and Blood of Christ                                                                                                                                            Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

Genesis 14:18-20     1 Corinthians 11: 23-26     Luke 9: 11b-17
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