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Are You a Stumbling Block?

October 2, 2018 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Last week we heard Jesus chastise his disciples for their arguing about who was the greatest in the group.  Today they take offense because they perceive a stranger’s action as a direct threat to their exclusive calling by Jesus.  Their attitude is clear: “you have no right; He gave us that job.”   They guard what they feel is their gift and they’re not about to share it.   Envy and jealousy raises its ugly head.

It seems we are witnessing how Jesus deals with this ages-old human condition.  We saw it first in the story of Cain and Abel.  In our own lives we may have been victim or culprit of it with our siblings or classmates.  St. Benedict guards against inroads of it in describing the Qualities of the Abbot, in the Tools of Good Works and the Steps of Humility; the distribution of labor and his directives about property and gifts.  The psalmist even applies the trait to God, and St. Paul says he experiences “a godly jealousy.”  We sing of it in our hymnody: “Our God is a jealous God.” And, here in this Gospel we hear the disciples grousing (Benedict called it “murmuring”) “How come they’re trying to use the gift you gave to us?”

So far they’ve missed the point of Jesus teaching about true discipleship.  That it’s how we relate to each other especially our interactions with the little ones and the least ones.  Jesus has shown by example that true disciples are to “forbid not the little ones to approach” and warned that true followers are not to “cause little ones to stumble.”

He’s been saying that who is included in the Kingdom is not within our authority, it’s not even within our concern!  Who is included in the Kingdom belongs alone to God.  Jesus makes it quite clear: whoever is not against us, is for us.  I think that’s why I struggle, and I know it really rankles with some, when an announcement is made at Mass about who can and cannot receive communion.

In this instance, Jesus in fact, immediately turns the tables on the disciples.  He warns them that they are the ones in danger of doing harm.  It’s as though Jesus says, “The problem is not those folks, guys.  Don’t worry about them — they are not the problem.  Rather, look at yourselves.  How are you getting in the way of the gospel?  Are you a stumbling block?”

We get a clear message that finger-pointing will not get us far with Jesus.   While the disciples are eager to bring judgment on the outsider who is acting in Jesus’ name, Jesus himself wants the disciples to pay attention instead to their own behavior.  Jesus couldn’t be more clear with his vivid example: a dire image of drowning to get his point across.  Better to drown (be thrown into the sea with a millstone around one’s neck) than do harm to “these little ones.”

He warns us that scrupulosity about others behavior or a judgement about their motivation can distract us so that we do harm and cause others to stumble.  Sometimes, even our best intentions to reprove others can have unintended consequences.  Jesus turns the focus back to our own behaviors, the ways we speak and reflect an image of Gospel living.  How authentic is it?

This gospel challenges us as individuals, and as community, to a self-examination.  What are the stumbling-blocks, the mind-fields we scatter before others that often unwittingly impedes the spread of the Good News?

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress
First Reading Numbers 11:25-29           Second Reading James 5:1-6
Gospel Mark 9:38-43,45,47-48
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Filed Under: Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Benedict, disciples, envy, God, jealousy, Jesus, little ones, stumbling block

Are You Who You Say You Are?

July 10, 2018 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

This Gospel tells us that Jesus is hampered from performing miracles in Nazareth because of the people’s lack of faith.  We see a very human side of Jesus.  He seems to be taken by surprise.  His family seems to be sending the message every child dreads to hear, especially from mom or dad: “Stop embarrassing us.  Act your age.”

Can you recall a time when a parent, teacher, novice mistress or maybe a friend seemed surprised by your words or an action that showed a level of maturity beyond their expectations?  In family life, and hopefully in our community, we rightfully expect a safe place to discover who we are and who God is calling us to be.

Does a time come to mind when you were surprised by someone you thought you knew saying something really wise, insightful or maybe just plain “off the wall” but so smart?  Why were you surprised?  Or was it not surprise, but impressive and pleasant to see a different aspect of that person.  It happens in my role frequently – A Sisters’ sharing gives me a peak into her depth of lectio, her expression of a deep spirituality puts me to shame or at the very least reminds me what a treasure we have in community.

Now it is interesting to note, that where the evangelist uses the word “offense” the Greek origin is “stumbling block.”  And that it seems to me is closer to what is happening here.  Jesus’ audience were scratching their heads and tripping over themselves trying to understand how this young whippersnapper from Nazareth could be so wise.  Up to this point, like most good Jews, he had kept a low profile.  Jesus’ family and friends were scared for him.   There was an emotional stumbling block interfering with them openly being a Jesus follower.

What stumbling block sometimes prevents you from speaking up in defense of Jesus, of our faith or our Benedictine values?

I was drawn back to the first reading from Ezekiel.  I wanted to say to Jesus when he seemed stymied by the crowd’s reaction to his teaching – Remember what Ezekiel said: The spirit entered into me and set me on my feet, and I heard the one who was speaking say to me: Son of man, I am sending you to the Israelites…  whether they resist or rebel or are obstinate of heart, it is you I am sending.  Say to them, whether you heed or resist, it is I whom God has sent – I am a prophet among you.”

The crowds used all the time-honored dismissive ways …  we know them, we have been targets – or sadly we may have employed them: belittling remarks, the covert laugh, the rolled eyes, the turning away of attention, or making light of the other’s knowledge – the attitude that says: who does she think she is?

Ultimately, what didn’t happen in Nazareth: no healings, no mighty deeds, is not much of a surprise.  After all a miracle is not just an event but it is an interpreted event.  If Jesus is not reputed to be capable of healing, any healing that does take place won’t be attributed to him.  So the crowd’s attitude is “there’s nothing here to see.  Let’s just move along, move along… and find some other excitement.”

Such is true with us, with our community.  Our guests don’t experience peace and harmony, generosity of spirit and light-heartedness, beauty in nature and liturgy if they don’t find it in each of us.  They come expecting a miracle – the miracle happens in our interactions – first with each other, then between us and our guests.

Remember Jesus question to this disciples: Who do people say I am?  And, you: who do you say I am?”  Who do you say these Benedictine Sisters of Florida are?

If I remembered well the music, I’d sing to you the tune from the rock opera popular in the 1970’s –

“Jesus Christ, Superstar – Do you think you’re what they say you are?”

Benedictine Sisters of Florida, do you think you’re what they say you are?

Are you really who you say you are?

Are you really who they say you are?

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress
First Reading  Ezekiel 2:2-5                Second Reading  2 Corinthians 12:7-10
Gospel Mark 6:1-6
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Filed Under: Blog, Front Page, Homily Tagged With: Ezekiel, Faith, God, Jesus, Miracle, Nazareth, stumbling block

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