Benedictine Sisters of FL

Holy Name Monastery
Founded 1889

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The Experience

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“The Benedictine Hospitality experience was so great and deeply felt.  As always, God’s presence in this beautiful and heavenly place makes me feel blessed and cared for.  Hope I can come back for the 3rd time!”                                         Fe A. Francisco

We receive communications like the above from so many guests after their visit to Holy Name Monastery.

For most it is no ordinary experience.  Reasons for those who reach-out to us vary from the joy and celebration of faith to the crushing blow of losing a loved one.  Whatever the reason, closeness to and a better understanding of God is the desire.  In the quiet, in walks on the property, reflection in the chapel, time to just be — the experience is often life changing.

Our prayer is to help guests experience what they are in need of so that when they leave this place, they feel a renewal and a confidence that they are not alone.  God is present in their lives.

As a supporter of our mission, you know such work has great value and you know funds raised are preciously and respectfully stewarded by the Sisters.  We ask that you share this message with your social network.  Give friends, family and colleagues the opportunity to know the joy of helping to change lives.  As an Ambassador for our cause, you can further help seekers, the needy, the elderly and those looking for direction in our chaotic world.

Even $5.00 donations on Giving Tuesday makes a difference and collectively can help ensure that our 2024 goal of $40,000 is successful.

Giving Tuesday is December 3rd

How to Participate in GivingTuesday:

By Mail:

  • Send a check payable to Benedictine Sisters of Florida postmarked by Dec 3rd
  • PO Box 2450, St. Leo, FL 33574-2450

Online:

  • Go to our website: benedictinesistersoffl.org
  • Click on the “Donate Now” button at the top of the page
  • Fill-in the form and designate your donation for “Giving Tuesday”
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Each day is our moment to resist any act of violence against creation.

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This weekend’s first reading, the story of the widow in Elijah’s time, and the Gospel of the widow in Jesus’ time, prompt us to take a hard look at our individual and communal giving practices.  As followers of Jesus Christ, we see clearly that God is the giver of all.  That raises the question: What portion of our blessings do we give back to honor God and build up God’s Kingdom on earth?

In this reflection, instead of emphasizing the spirit of giving often connected with the story of the widow’s mite, I’d like to share some ideas that convey the perspective that it is not all about GIVING.  This summer’s siege of storm devastation and raging fires in the western U.S. is often blamed on changing weather patterns.  But is not much of it due to poor land management, human carelessness and a growing history of trying to control the forces of nature?  The Benedictine value of STEWARDSHIP (preserving the earth and respecting people) calls us to responsible care rather than oppressive authoritative dominance.  Our current readings from the Rule of Benedict remind us: “Treat all things as INSTRUMENTS of the ALTAR.”  “A good word is better than the best gift.”  Living out the Benedictine value of prudent stewardship can require a radical shift in our thinking lest we too easily become accustomed to regarding earth’s resources as if they had no intrinsic worth.  For example, the demand for fast, prepackaged food contributes to the stripping of rain forests in order to provide pastureland.  In the process, many Indigenous peoples have been rendered homeless, and the habitat of endangered species has been lost forever.  Advances have been made in the production of biodegradable substances but so far, it’s only resulted in a reduction in the time it takes plastics and Styrofoam to disintegrate – they still constitute a hazard to the environment.

One of the biggest offenders is plastic bottles.  In landfills toxic gases are leached into the environment causing a variety of health issues.  Landfills in the U.S. have over 2- million discarded plastic bottles that each take up to 1,000 years to decompose.  How many thousand years did we toss into the landfill this week?  In the last month?  Trying to conserve by switching from plastic to glass containers is foiled here in our county because glass is not recycled.  Our primary motivation is that all (now and in the future) may have a share in God’s gifts. We have to think bigger than the cash register. Each day is our moment to resist any act of violence against creation.

We wrestle prayerfully with questions about how we can adopt, and adapt, to a simpler lifestyle: letting go of some things, being patient when our preferences are denied by unavailability of pantry supplies. We have to start where we are, doing what we can, with the insight and energy we have to make a difference.  Maybe we begin with one thing, one purchase, one habit a month that we change.  For example: spend a few pennies more to make a purchase from a local vendor that you usually make at a big box store.  Or make a pint or gallon purchase of hand soap instead of several smaller bottles.    Run 2-sided copies and use scrap paper for note pads. After a month, don’t forsake the new habit, keep it up and add a new pattern.  By the end of the year, you’ll be 12x more conservative.  You may ask: how does doing any of this help the people in the 3rd world?  The truth is, it doesn’t directly.  It changes YOU.   At the heart of our actions must rest the conviction that our world belongs to God and any misuse dishonors the Creator.

The widow in the Gospel was made destitute by life’s circumstances.  We by no means live a life of destitution – but we know people who do.  We are invited to ask ourselves: What can I, what can we, do to reverse the destructive patterns of life that are making a negative impact on our earth and in the lives of those we profess to serve?  In the mix, is the challenge THINK GLOBAL, ACT LOCAL.  Each day we are challenged to figure out what to do with our “too much”?  The answer is NOT to find an empty shelf, an empty room, to store it.  If we are not using it, do we REALLY need it? If we haven’t worn it since we moved into this building, who could use it?  If we have forgotten we ever had it, did we ever really need it?  Are we saving it because, deep down, we don’t trust God to come through for us on a “rainy day?”  We can only give from our need if we trust (really and truly deep down) that God will provide.   We can sing God’s praises with Elijah’s widow in tomorrow’s first reading because, for nigh on 137 years, our community “jar of flour has not gone empty” and “our jug of oil has never run dry”.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB

 

 

Thank God for the gift that Veterans have offered for our nation and for world peace ….   Remember, too, the families of veterans …  their lives too were, and are, affected by the impact on service women and me …  witnessing the effects of turmoil between peoples and nations.  Pray for strength for veterans and their families to be compassionate, supportive, faithful to relationships and seeking available medical and mental services.    

Have a good week!

 

First Reading:  Kings 17:10-16                 Second Reading:  Hebrews 9:24-28
Gospel:  Mark 12:38-44
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Give and God Provides

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We can only give from our need if we trust that God will provide.

Sunday’s first reading, the widow in Elijah’s time, and the Gospel of the widow in Jesus’ time, prompt us to take a hard look at our individual and communal giving practices.  If, as followers of Jesus Christ, we see clearly that God is the giver of all, how do we offer thanks?  What portion of our blessings do we give back to honor God and build up God’s Kingdom on earth?  We can apply the lesson in this story of the widow’s mite to our current collection of donations to Daystar Hope.  With the kind support of the Knights of St. Mark’s parish, and individual donors, we are enabled to distribute gift cards and bus passes to Daystar clients to help brighten their Thanksgiving.  Truly, we can all give something, the amount is between the individual and God.

In this reflection instead of emphasizing the spirit of giving often connected with the story of the Widow’s mite, I’d like to share some ideas that convey the perspective that it is not all about GIVING.  The Benedictine value of STEWARDSHIP (preserving the earth and respecting people) calls us to responsibility and care rather than oppressive domination.  To live out this value can require a radical shift in our thinking.  We can too easily become accustomed to regarding earth’s resources as if they had no intrinsic worth beyond their value to us.  For example, the demand for fast, prepackaged food contributes to a stripping of rain forests in order to provide pasture land.  In the process, many indigenous peoples have been rendered homeless, and the habitat of endangered species has been lost forever.  Advances have been made in the production of biodegradable substances but so far it’s only resulted in a reduction in the time it takes plastics and styrofoam to disintegrate – they still constitute a hazard to the environment.

One of the biggest offenders of violence to our environment is plastic bottles.  We hear frequently of the health value of drinking more water and those 12-16 oz. bottles are so handy.  Some plastics are recyclable or reusable.  But others, each time you refill it can leach toxins into the water you will consume.  And, in landfills or trash heaps toxic gases are leached into the environment causing a variety of health issues.  Landfills in the U.S. have over 2 million discarded plastic bottles that each take up to 1,000 years to decompose.  How many thousand years did we toss into the landfill in this week?  In the last month?  Trying to conserve by switching from plastic to glass containers here in our county is foiled because glass is not recycled.

Our primary motivation is that all (now and in the future) may have a share in God’s gifts.  We have to think bigger than the cash register.  Each day is our moment to resist any act of violence against creation.  It’s a special challenge now when COVID and CDC regs seem to thwart some of our progress.  For instance: it’s OUT with a cloth hand towel for everyone’s use; IN with paper towels to avoid the risk of virus transmission.

We wrestle prayerfully with questions about how we can adopt and adapt to a simpler lifestyle – letting go of some things, being patient when our preferences are denied by unavailability of pantry supplies.  We have to start where we are, doing what we can, with the insight and energy we have to make a difference.  Maybe we begin with one thing, one purchase, one habit a month that we change.  For example, spend a few pennies more to make a purchase from a local vendor that you usually make at a big box store.  Or make a gallon purchase instead of several smaller bottles.  Or take a shorter shower or don’t let the water run as you brush your teeth.  Run 2-sided copies and use scrap paper for note pads.  After a month, don’t forsake the new habit, keep it up and add a new pattern.  By the end of the year you’ll be 12x more conservative.  You may ask: how does doing any of this help the people in the 3rd world?  The truth is it doesn’t directly.  It changes YOU.  At the heart of our actions must rest the conviction that our world belongs to God and any misuse dishonors the Creator.

This widow in the Gospel was made destitute by life’s circumstances.  We, by no means live a life of destitution – but we know people who do.  We are invited to ask ourselves, what can I, what can we, do to reverse the destructive patterns of life that are making a negative impact on our earth and in the lives of those we profess to serve?  Each day we are challenged to figure out what to do with our “too much.”  The answer is NOT to find an empty shelf or an empty room to store it.  If we are not using it, do we REALLY need it?  If we haven’t worn it since we moved to this building, who could use it?  If we have forgotten we ever had it, did we ever really need it?  Are we saving it because, deep down, we don’t trust God to come through for us on a “rainy day?”  We can only give from our need if we trust (really and truly) that God will provide.

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

 

This week we pray for veterans of all nations: for their families who support them and suffer with them … for spouses who raise children in their absence … and families who agonize when they are injured, missing or imprisoned … for support services personnel – we pray in gratitude for all their sacrifices.

 

First Reading:   Kings 17:10-16            Second Reading:  Hebrews 9:24-28
Gospel:   Mark 12:38-44
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