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Bethlehem

Epiphany

January 4, 2021 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

 

Epiphany

This solemnity of the Epiphany has for so long been associated with the image of “Three Kings” that it’s easy to forget that Matthew, who is the only evangelist who relates this particular story, nowhere mentions either the number of visitors or their kingly rank.  The number three seems to have been inferred from the three gifts—gold, frankincense, and myrrh.  Tradition holds that, guided by a miraculous light of a star, the three kings or magi arrived in Bethlehem where they paid homage to the Infant Jesus.  Their names, Balthasar, Melchior and Caspar are derived from their home countries named in the Responsorial Psalm: Arabia, Persia, and India.  They are usually shown to be of the three races: white, brown and black to stress that the Manifestation of the Lord was being made to all peoples.

Greek and Russian traditions hold there were twelve Magi because as they argue there were twelve legions of angels, twelve apostles, and twelve tribes of Israel.  A folksy story arises from the Holy Land about a Bethlehem widow named Babushka who put finishing touches on her housework ahead or trailing after the three mysterious visitors who spoke of a guiding star.  Her story holds a moral for us: never let the important interfere with the essential.

Kindred beliefs, stories and customs come from all over the world.  In Kerala, India, Epiphany is a holyday of great importance.  The annual celebration begins early in the day at the cathedral with much congregational participation.

With our closeness to Tarpon Springs, we are well aware of the Greek tradition of young men diving into the bayou (no matter how cold the water is) in hopes of retrieving the Cross that will bring them a year of blessings.

In Spanish-speaking countries it is often the tradition to observe Three Kings Day, first at church, then it’s time for partying and exchanging gifts.  For some, reminiscent perhaps of the St. Nicholas Day customs, a trail of hay is left for the Kings’ camels to lure them to homes to leave a gift.

One of the customs in some places in Germany is for carolers to go house-to-house.  (You’ll recognize this practice in our Epiphany house blessing.  I suspect that our Benedictines ancestors must have brought it with them when they came to the U.S. in 1852 .. from PA to our foundation in 1889).   The carolers paint, above or near the doorway, “20+C+M+B+21” which are the first letters, some say, of the three kings Caspar, Melchior and Balthazar.  Others say it is Latin for “Christ bless this house.”

In England and some former British colonies, according to an old custom, the “downstairs folk” celebrate Boxing Day on December 26, when their manor house employers gifted them with their unwanted gifts.  (Today we’d say they recycle the gifts.)  In some countries – most notably Italy and Russia – there is a long-held shared tradition of the kindly old witch who makes her annual visit bringing presents by climbing down the chimney on Epiphany eve.

In the Philippines, which is composed of 2000 inhabited islands, Epiphany is a mix of celebrations honoring the elders and children and the wearing of King’s Hats.  And you know the custom of the King’s Cake.

But why would we be interested in any of this or in any of the Epiphany or Twelfth Night customs that have evolved over the years.  For one, we are a nation, and a community, from a variety of backgrounds.  As Pope Francis said to us in his Apostolic Letter on Consecrated Life: “Journeying together always brings enrichment and can open new paths to relationships between peoples and cultures.”  Our prayer intention this week is that the dawning of this new year may bring with it the gifts of a warm welcome, peace, financial security, good health and worthy companionship for migrants, immigrants, displaced persons and all for whom we have promised to pray – and let’s not overlook each other.

In closing, I want to share with you a little story I was reminded of recently.  It was first published in 1977 – Sharon’s Christmas Prayer by John Shea (To our readers: Take a breath, read the poem, if you will, aloud – with a child’s exuberance.)

“She was five, sure of the facts, and recited them with slow solemnity convinced every word was revelation.

She said they were so poor they had only peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to eat and they went a long way from home without getting lost.  The lady rode a donkey, the man walked, and the baby was inside the lady.

They had to stay in a stable with an ox and an ass (hee-hee)
but the Three Rich Men found them because a star lited the roof.
Shepherds came and you could pet the sheep but not feed them.

Then the baby was borned.  And do you know who he was?

Her quarter eyes inflated to silver dollars, The baby was God.

And she jumped in the air whirled round, dove into the sofa and buried her head under the cushion which is the only proper response to the Good News of the Incarnation.

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“When you travel, be sure your socks do not have holes in them and wear clean underwear.”

December 23, 2020 by Holy Name Monastery Leave a Comment

Each year in Advent, I look forward to the singing of the O Antiphons.  I especially like that we use the ancient chant tones and Latin form of address.  Having once heard the monastic version, I’d feel deprived if we, like in the parishes, only sang the Antiphon as the Gospel Acclamation.  Now in this final week of Advent, this monastic custom fixes our attention on the messianic promises proclaimed by the ancient prophets of Israel, particularly the prophecies of Isaiah.  The O Antiphons are often called the “Greater Antiphons” and add a mood of eager expectation to the Liturgy of the Hours that climaxes on Christmas Eve with the Solemn Closing of Advent.

The exact origin of the “O Antiphons” is not known.  “O”, you probably know from the article in This Day, is the Biblical equivalent of “You.”  References based on chronicles found in the archives at the Benedictine Abbey of Fleury lead us to believe the O Antiphons as we know them, were introduced in the 5th century.  The antiphon was sung by the abbot and other community leaders in descending rank, and then a gift was given to each member of the community.  (Hang on to your hopes til Christmas morning when you’ll find in your mailbox a gift ($20) – collectively donated by several anonymous persons).

The O Antiphons have been described as “a unique work of art and a special ornament of the pre-Christmas liturgy.”  Their composer shows “a magnificent command of the Scriptural wealth of motifs.”  The predominant theme of the collage of Old Testament types of the coming Redeemer stresses the hope in the Savior’s coming progressing historically from before creation to the stable in Bethlehem.

In their structure, each antiphon follows the same pattern: an invocation to the expected Messiah, followed by praise under a particular title.  Each antiphon ends with a petition for God’s people and the cry “Come.”  Each includes a line that is related to one of the prophecies of Isaiah.  For example, in a few minutes we will sing: O Radix Jesse recalling Isaiah’s promise: “a shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom.”

On Christmas Eve, in joyful anticipation we will sing: “O Emmanuel, King and lawgiver, desire of the nations, Savior of all people. Come!”  Harking back to the long ago foretold prophecy of Isaiah, “The Lord himself will give you this sign: the Virgin shall be with child, and bear a son, and shall name him Emmanuel, God is with us.”

In that antiphon, the Lord Jesus, whose coming we have sung about in seven Messianic titles, will speak to us.  In Latin the first initials of the titles make an acrostic ERO CRAS which, if you read the titles in reverse order means: “Tomorrow I will come:  Or “Tomorrow I will be there” (“Ero cras”).

O Sapientia (O Wisdom), O Adonai (O Lord), O Radix Jesse (O Root of Jesse), O Clavis David (O Key of David), O Oriens (O Rising Sun), O Rex Gentium (O King of the Nations), and O Emmanuel.

Yes, Jesus will come; Jesus IS come – Christmas is almost here!  But, wait, you’ve heard the expression “It isn’t over until the fat lady sings?”  Advent isn’t over until WE sing in the solemn candle lighting ceremony that closes the 2020 Advent season.

We know our earthly Advent isn’t over until Jesus comes in glory to call us home.  A couple years ago, waiting in the emergency room with Sister Mildred, she seemed to be sleeping when she started speaking, then opened her eyes and said, in her thoughtful, New Orleans drawl…  “You just never know, do you, what the day is going to bring?”  She continued speaking …  I was expecting some spiritual nugget.  She went on: “Last week when I went to the doctor, I was prepared – I put on my brand new underwear and she never asked me to take off a thing.  Today I had to take off everything from the waist up and I had on my oldest underwear.  In fact, it should be in the rag bag and it will be when I get home.”

That’s a good Advent journey reminder of what our mothers told us: “When you travel, be sure your socks do not have holes in them and wear clean underwear.”

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB
First Reading:             2 Samuel 7:1-5,8b-12,14a,16
Second Reading:        Romans 16:25-27
Gospel:                        Luke1:26-38
Intention:                     Our family friends, benefactors, oblates and employees
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Until you know what hurts me…

December 4, 2017 by Holy Name Monastery 1 Comment

Scholars believe that Mark’s Gospel was written 30-40 years after Jesus’ death. His audience would have been Christians who were living in a difficult social and political time, a time of conflict.  They were likely to be facing persecution because they were followers of Jesus.  These early Christians took courage in Jesus’ warning to remain alert and watchful.  It strengthened them to persevere through the sufferings they encountered.

By the 6th century, Advent was tied to the coming of Christ.  But the “coming” they had in mind was not Christ’s first coming in the manger in Bethlehem, but his second coming in the clouds as the judge of the world.  It was not until the Middle Ages that the Advent season was explicitly linked to Christ’s first coming at Christmas.  In our contemporary church year Advent begins at the Vigil of the Sunday nearest the Feast of St. Andrew – sometime between November 27 and December 3rd.  We stretched it to the max this year.

Like the disciples and the faithful in Mark’s community, we must also stay alert and watchful.  Our faithfulness to God, and our experience of God’s faithful to us, through the good times as well as the difficult times, keeps us in a state of readiness for the coming of God in our daily lives and for Christ’s second coming.  It is special time when we strive to counterbalance the challenges in our environment: noise, speed and busyness.  Advent is a sacramental moment – an extended moment spanning 4 weeks.  It is a time for increased prayer, observances of the beauty and the needs in our everyday environment, and a honing of the discipline to respond to what God places in our paths.  It’s not a time to curl into ourselves, look at the pretty Christmas lights and dream of a “white Christmas with every Christmas card we write.”

Advent is certainly a time of waiting and of celebration and anticipation of Christ’s birth.  And it’s more than that.  It is only in the shadow of Advent that the miracle of Christmas can be fully understood and appreciated.  It is only in the light of Christmas that the Christian life makes any sense.  It is the between-time that Karl Barth speaks of when he writes: “Unfulfilled and fulfilled promises are related to each other, as are dawn and sunrise.  Both are promise and in fact the same promise.  If anywhere at all, then it is precisely in the light of the coming of Christ that faith has become Advent faith, the expectation of future revelation.  But faith knows for whom and for what it is waiting.  It is fulfilled faith because it lays hold on the fulfilled promise.  This,” says Barth, “is the essence of Advent.”

The Christmas story reminds us that it was in the midst of the busy stop-over city of Bethlehem that God slipped visibly into our world: a squalling infant to a humble, unpretentious couple.  In those days, Bethlehem was a place where business was conducted quickly, camels were exchanged, horses were watered, travelers would stop to have a meal and maybe spend a night.  Sheep grazed on the hillsides, shepherds kept watch for hungry wolves and marauders on the take.  Bethlehem’s fame was based on a has-been history … it was King David’s hometown.

It was here that the Christmas miracle happened … a God-moment that proves for those who have eyes to see and ears to hear that even a smelly cave can be heaven on earth – a sacred place – God’s house.

We have all had experiences of waiting … that’s part of all our lives.  This season of Advent reminds us that waiting is often the cost of love: in waiting for someone, our own everyday business becomes almost meaningless as we anticipate, worry, and prepare for our loved one’s return.  In waiting, we realize our own powerlessness; we realize our deepest hopes and needs; we realize the gift of the person we are awaiting is to us.

While it is difficult to keep the spirit of Advent in mind in the midst of holiday celebrations, shopping, lights and decorations, and joyful carols, Advent is intended to be a season of fasting, but not the penitential fasting we associate with Lent.  You’ll notice the liturgical color is lavender, not the deep purple of Lent.  Advent is anticipatory fasting of waiting, waiting for the glorious miracle of Christmas.  This is fasting when you’re too excited to do anything else, except sit-on-the-the-edge of the your seat, listen for the sound of approaching footsteps, stare at the door knob so you’ll be the first to see it turn and you keep asking: “Is it time yet?  Is He here?”

May our waiting for the coming of the Holy One this Christmas help us understand and carry on the mystery of compassionate and generous waiting.  Don’t expect a dramatic vision but do try to become more conscious of the Christ coming through our doors, in the ones who enter our community room, our retreat space and share a meal with us.  In our corporate commitment we pledge to be the embodiment of the compassion of Christ.  And it is obvious from our visitors’ comments that this is one of our signature ministries.  Our guests, and we who live here, know that our companions care for us …  the question may be do we care about each other.  One litmus test: until you know what hurts me, you cannot truly love me.“

We pray: fill our hearts with Advent hope so that we may learn to cope with the delays and disappointments we encounter with patience and wisdom.   May a spirit of gratitude and humility guide us on our journey to your dwelling place, enabling us to endure, with joy, the costs of waiting for love, reconciliation, and peace.

What has been your most difficult experience of waiting?  In the end how was your long vigil rewarded?

~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress

 

First Reading  Isaiah 63:16b-17,  19b;64:2-7               Second Reading 1 Corinthians 1:3-9
Gospel Mark 13:33-37
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