Form You Own Giving Circle
Form You Own Giving Circle
Giving Circles are a great way for people of like values to make a greater impact with their charitable dollars. GivingTuesday is a perfect opportunity to do that and easy!
The group can be two, ten or whatever number you decide. Start small and watch the number of members and donations grow to benefit the Sisters and their ministries. As a part of your collective, the individual member’s donation(s) are magnified.
How do I form a Giving Circle:
- Invite friends and family
- Share why you support the Benedictine Sisters of Florida
- Name the group
- Each member can donate at their comfort level (i.e. $5.00, $10, $100 or more)
- Only the group’s total amount will be publicly announced
- Be sure members indicate when they donate, they are part of your group
- Celebrate together after Giving Tuesday!
Options to Give:
1. By Mail:
- Send a check to the Benedictine Sisters of Florida postmarked by Nov. 30th
- PO Box 2450, St. Leo, FL 33574-2450
- Be sure to include your group’s name on the memo line
- Online:
- Go to our website: benedictinesistersoffl.org
- Click on the “Donate Now” button at the top of the page
- Fill-in the form and designate your donation for “Giving Tuesday”
- You can fill-in the “dedicated to” box with the name of your group
Keep it interesting: Going forward you can plan to create a logo for your group; members might want to invite other like-minded people to the group; give youngsters their first experience with giving back with their own donation. YOU envision what your circle can be and know that God is smiling upon what gets accomplished in Christ’s name.
For questions or help forming your own Giving Circle, call or email Faith Pridmore at: hnmdevelopment@saintleo.edu or call (352) 588-8320. She can give you whatever you might need.
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Give and God Provides
We can only give from our need if we trust that God will provide.
Sunday’s first reading, the widow in Elijah’s time, and the Gospel of the widow in Jesus’ time, prompt us to take a hard look at our individual and communal giving practices. If, as followers of Jesus Christ, we see clearly that God is the giver of all, how do we offer thanks? What portion of our blessings do we give back to honor God and build up God’s Kingdom on earth? We can apply the lesson in this story of the widow’s mite to our current collection of donations to Daystar Hope. With the kind support of the Knights of St. Mark’s parish, and individual donors, we are enabled to distribute gift cards and bus passes to Daystar clients to help brighten their Thanksgiving. Truly, we can all give something, the amount is between the individual and God.
In this reflection instead of emphasizing the spirit of giving often connected with the story of the Widow’s mite, I’d like to share some ideas that convey the perspective that it is not all about GIVING. The Benedictine value of STEWARDSHIP (preserving the earth and respecting people) calls us to responsibility and care rather than oppressive domination. To live out this value can require a radical shift in our thinking. We can too easily become accustomed to regarding earth’s resources as if they had no intrinsic worth beyond their value to us. For example, the demand for fast, prepackaged food contributes to a stripping of rain forests in order to provide pasture land. In the process, many indigenous peoples have been rendered homeless, and the habitat of endangered species has been lost forever. Advances have been made in the production of biodegradable substances but so far it’s only resulted in a reduction in the time it takes plastics and styrofoam to disintegrate – they still constitute a hazard to the environment.
One of the biggest offenders of violence to our environment is plastic bottles. We hear frequently of the health value of drinking more water and those 12-16 oz. bottles are so handy. Some plastics are recyclable or reusable. But others, each time you refill it can leach toxins into the water you will consume. And, in landfills or trash heaps toxic gases are leached into the environment causing a variety of health issues. Landfills in the U.S. have over 2 million discarded plastic bottles that each take up to 1,000 years to decompose. How many thousand years did we toss into the landfill in this week? In the last month? Trying to conserve by switching from plastic to glass containers here in our county is foiled because glass is not recycled.
Our primary motivation is that all (now and in the future) may have a share in God’s gifts. We have to think bigger than the cash register. Each day is our moment to resist any act of violence against creation. It’s a special challenge now when COVID and CDC regs seem to thwart some of our progress. For instance: it’s OUT with a cloth hand towel for everyone’s use; IN with paper towels to avoid the risk of virus transmission.
We wrestle prayerfully with questions about how we can adopt and adapt to a simpler lifestyle – letting go of some things, being patient when our preferences are denied by unavailability of pantry supplies. We have to start where we are, doing what we can, with the insight and energy we have to make a difference. Maybe we begin with one thing, one purchase, one habit a month that we change. For example, spend a few pennies more to make a purchase from a local vendor that you usually make at a big box store. Or make a gallon purchase instead of several smaller bottles. Or take a shorter shower or don’t let the water run as you brush your teeth. Run 2-sided copies and use scrap paper for note pads. After a month, don’t forsake the new habit, keep it up and add a new pattern. By the end of the year you’ll be 12x more conservative. You may ask: how does doing any of this help the people in the 3rd world? The truth is it doesn’t directly. It changes YOU. At the heart of our actions must rest the conviction that our world belongs to God and any misuse dishonors the Creator.
This widow in the Gospel was made destitute by life’s circumstances. We, by no means live a life of destitution – but we know people who do. We are invited to ask ourselves, what can I, what can we, do to reverse the destructive patterns of life that are making a negative impact on our earth and in the lives of those we profess to serve? Each day we are challenged to figure out what to do with our “too much.” The answer is NOT to find an empty shelf or an empty room to store it. If we are not using it, do we REALLY need it? If we haven’t worn it since we moved to this building, who could use it? If we have forgotten we ever had it, did we ever really need it? Are we saving it because, deep down, we don’t trust God to come through for us on a “rainy day?” We can only give from our need if we trust (really and truly) that God will provide.
~Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress
This week we pray for veterans of all nations: for their families who support them and suffer with them … for spouses who raise children in their absence … and families who agonize when they are injured, missing or imprisoned … for support services personnel – we pray in gratitude for all their sacrifices.
First Reading: Kings 17:10-16 Second Reading: Hebrews 9:24-28
Gospel: Mark 12:38-44
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The Experience
“The Benedictine Hospitality experience was so great and deeply felt. As always, God’s presence in this beautiful and heavenly place makes me feel blessed and cared for. Hope I can come back for the 3rd time!”
Fe A. Francisco
We receive communications like the above from so many guests after their visit to Holy Name Monastery.
For most it is no ordinary experience. Reasons for those who reach-out to us vary from the joy and celebration of faith to the crushing blow of losing a loved one. Whatever the reason, closeness to and a better understanding of God is the desire. In the quiet, in walks on the property, reflection in the chapel, time to just be — the experience is often life changing.
Our prayer is to help guests experience what they are in need of so that when they leave this place, they feel a renewal and a confidence that they are not alone. God is present in their lives.
As a supporter of our mission, you know such work has great value and you know funds raised are preciously and respectfully stewarded by the Sisters. We ask that you share this message with your social network. Give friends, family and colleagues the opportunity to know the joy of helping to change lives. As an Ambassador for our cause, you can further help seekers, the needy, the elderly and those looking for direction in our chaotic world.
Even $5.00 donations on Giving Tuesday makes a difference and collectively can help ensure that our 2021 Goal of $30,000 is successful.
How to Participate in GivingTuesday:
- By Mail:
- Send a check payable to Benedictine Sisters of Florida postmarked by Nov. 30th
- PO Box 2450, St. Leo, FL 33574-2450
2. Online:
- Go to our website: benedictinesistersoffl.org
- Click on the “Donate Now” button at the top of the page
- Fill-in the form and designate your donation for “Giving Tuesday”
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Do All The Good You Can, For As Long As You Can
In the short story, The Man Who Wanted a Key, the author describes the frustration of listening to a person who embellishes stories with irrelevant details. He points out that there is much wisdom to be able to get to the heart of the matter. St. Benedict reminds the monastic of this when in Chapter 7, Steps of Humility, he paraphrases Ecclesiastes (10:12) “The wise person is known by the fewness of her words.”
The scribe who came to Jesus with the question, “Which commandment is the first of all?” was such a person–one who wanted to get to the main point. Despite the opinion of many, there is no indication in Scripture that the scribe who raised the question was out to trap Jesus. Mark is considered by some biblical scholars as being the best storyteller. If it was a trap, he would have included that the scribe was aiming to get Jesus to condemn himself by saying something considered to be against the Law. The man just wanted Jesus to get to the point: which is the first of the commandments? Jesus gives him a much fuller answer than he bargained for.
Maybe you’re like that scribe. Do you ever mumble under your breath: “What a better place this world would be if only everyone followed the teaching of Jesus the way I do.” Our own shortcomings loom large before us, it’s true. And, sadly, we can be overly aware of the failures of others. If only they’d listen, we could fix them. Jesus said: “Love your neighbor.” And we each think we know exactly what he meant and how to do it.
In this Gospel reading, Jesus teaches us a special trick: how to make two become one. There are two rules he says. If you obey and live out of this teaching you will fulfil the law. The first step is to love God. The second is to love your neighbor the same way that you love yourself. It’s not two laws, it’s one law with two facets. This rule is so important we call it the Golden Rule. Love and treat others in the same way that you would like them to love and treat you. Bottom line: this means we love the other in the way she or he would appreciate. We learn to read each other’s cues. That takes time and is one of the blessings of the vow of stability; the promise of stick-to-itiveness.
Isn’t this what our Father-God did? The WORD became FLESH in Jesus our Christ. And that LOVE cost God the Father and the Son the life of the Son. Love is a decision we make that we want to respond to others like Jesus would. We ask the same question as the scribe, “Which, of all I see before me to do, is first in God’s eyes? What should be first on my list of priorities, what is my most important date with God for today?” Jesus’ reply is so simple it is no wonder we don’t dare ask him any further questions. We need only to let his reply echo in our hearts, asking for the grace to understand what it means to put love as our highest priority. St. Benedict puts it this way (in chapter 72): “Foster fervent love: be the first to show respect to the other … pursue what you judge better for someone else … show reverent love to God; prefer nothing whatever to Christ.”
St. Paul tells us: “We are God’s work of art.” When the other rankles your nerves and tries your patience, remind yourself: “This person before me is God’s work of art.” That can be especially hard to do UNLESS I first acknowledge “I am God’s work of art.”
John Wesley provided a thought-provoking description of how one might obey the great commandment: “Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.”
~ Reflection by Sister Roberta Bailey, OSB, Prioress
Hope you had a Happy All Hollows Eve
and enjoy a pleasant All Saints’ Day – a prayfull All Souls’ Day
First Reading: Deuteronomy 6:2-6 Second Reading: Hebrews 7:23-28
Gospel: Mark 12:28-34
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